"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Embrace your male dominance. Become an alpha.

jdon23

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I have become "that guy" at parties. The guy that is the center of attention. The guy that makes everyone feel comfortable and is very fun to be around. The guy that can attract women with LITTLE effort.

I was at this party Saturday, and I was with my good friend. We knew NOBODY. Yet I went up to people like I DID.

This one guy I was talking to suddenly started calling me "his boy" and was giving me free drinks and started sucking up to me. He introduced me to his circle of friends, and then I started telling a funny story. Before I knew it, half the party was listening to me and enjoying my company. I started conversations with MANY people, always with a smile on my face. I showed my enthusiasm to meet someone, and they ALWAYS returned it.

After I gained all this social status, I could literally go up to ANY woman in this party and KNOW she was interested in me. It was literally like taking candy from a baby...

And you can do it too.

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If your one of those boys WAITING for a woman to MAGICALLY land on your lap.. then I have to tell you something...



Nothing of any true worth can EVER be achieved in your life...UNLESS YOU DO IT YOURSELF! STOP waiting for something to happen.. YOU have the power to turn your dreams into reality. No one else will do it for you.




From now on, you will never again say to yourself, "I cant". No longer will you wait for enough "luck" to strike you, and bring your success. Not anymore. You make your OWN luck! You are an alpha-male now! You take what you want, and ask questions later.



Suddenly you notice that you can push yourself further and further. Things that were seemingly "impossible" to achieve before, have become incredibly easy. You are no longer scared of approaching that HB9 because you don't need her approval to be happy. She is the one that has to prove herself to you. You have YOUR pick of the litter. YOU get to pick which woman you want. Not the other way around.



Once you embrace the qualities of being an alpha, you will find improvement in EVERY portion of your life. Ever since I started looking at myself as a dominant male, I have gained an incredible amount of REAL confidence. Other people have noticed this confidence, and like being around me. They look up to me as a leader and try to be more like me.



The only thing stopping you from success is yourself. It's not how you look. It's not what car you have. It's not the friends you hang out with. Its not the hundreds of other excuses you have told yourself to feel better about your lack of success. That stuff doesn't matter anymore. The only thing that matters is the image you have created for YOURSELF.


That complaining, whining, weak person is gone now. Forever. For on this day, you have taken that first step towards success. You will no longer SETTLE for the crap things in your life. Now YOU are the one who makes the shots. You don't like something? Change it. Simple as that.





The world is waiting for you.. now is the time to make a move.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nygard

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If somebody can go from shy and awkward to alpha, social and attractive in a second, then that guy should be in hollywood making movies because he's locked for an Oscar.

However, congratz on your mindset.
 

MisterMcGee

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It's taken me a month to become 'that guy'. I wasn't THAT BAD before, though, but still, this is 100% true. You don't even have to ****ing sieze the moment constantly, cause that's tiring and I just don't care sometimes. Just be cool, be yourself, laugh, smile, do random things, whatever. Just BE.
As long as you're a great guy, the act of simply BEing will do you LOADS of good.

If you're not a great guy, then work on that first. Book of Pook will help you get your mind in the right place
 

jdon23

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Nygard said:
If somebody can go from shy and awkward to alpha, social and attractive in a second, then that guy should be in hollywood making movies because he's locked for an Oscar.

However, congratz on your mindset.

What I am trying to bring out is that I believe every man has the POTENTIAL to be an alpha deep down. He just has to find it within himself. This change takes a severe commitment and won't happen overnight.

The purpose of my original post was to encourage someone who is feeling trapped in their life, that there IS hope for change.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nygard

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Dont forget to say that it might take years to get anywhere near. I have a friend who has been on that quest for 3 entire years and he's only improving these days, and he's still a virgin. So dont forget the disclaimer :p
 

Bonafide

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Nygard said:
If somebody can go from shy and awkward to alpha, social and attractive in a second, then that guy should be in hollywood making movies because he's locked for an Oscar.

However, congratz on your mindset.

exactly, Ive been seriously considering an acting career...because im pretty damn good at this lol
 

Al Moh.

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From my personal experience you can go from computer geek to at least aspiring DJ with a different girl at least every two months in half a year. And that's not even rushing. You just have to have the willpower to do this, the patience to slowly change and the strength to overcome anything in your way.

If somebody can go from shy and awkward to alpha, social and attractive in a second, then that guy should be in hollywood making movies because he's locked for an Oscar.
It's not about a second but it's possible to do this within some months. The OP seems to have done it. Pook did it. I did it. It's possile if you BELIEVE. Remember Luke Skywalker in Star Wars when he doesn't manage to pull the X-Wing out of the swamp? Yoda says it's because he doesn't believe it could be possible. This statement is also true for our world. If you don't believe in it, you can't do it. Period.
 

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It all depends on how receptive the guy is, where he's starting (Some guys start at square -30 and it takes longer and it's harder) and how many risks he's willing to take. I agree, given all of this and a strong force pushing behind it may be done in some months but definitely not in a day or so.
 
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