"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Embrace being the "bad" guy

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Some of you might feel guilty when you go out and sarge and behave in the way nature designed. You might feel like a real scum bag. This is very common...no one wants to feel like the "bad" guy. But what you must know is that women WANT you to be the "bad" guy. They want to "blame" you for the whole experience. It's called DENIAL OF RESPONSIBLITY. This is why the aggressive "bad" boys win out.

Women and people in general LOVE to use scapegoats. "It is an extremely human response to not look inward after a mistake or crime, but rather to look out ward and to affix blame and guilt on a convenient object." R. Greene
That convenient object is YOU. So EMBRACE being the "bad" guy, the villain , the rebel.

It's AMAZING how many laws of POWER..."bad" boys implement.

Anyways, I don't know about you guys...BUT....I love movies. And I love movies with great VILLAINS. Villains are more interesting characters and are never BORING(like many nice guys). So if a women calls you a bad guy...TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT.

I leave you with a clip from scarface....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbPZnA2taT4&mode=related&search=
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After so many posts, I still have no idea what it means to be a bad boy or to be hard to get...


Its NOT possible to get me to really care or need a girl.
Its NOT possible to get me to EVER compliment, submit, or be below any woman.


But ah... its easy to get me in bed. However, I have yet to have a girl who would obviously TRY to get me in bed. They could be suggestive, but I just grab'em and do'em.

Which part is bad? I don't please their ego. I please their sexuality, but if I go for sex on 1st date - doesn't that make me EASY?

I don't grasp that concept really... Or maybe its because I like shy girls who don't make any moves and don't do anything and let ME do things?
 
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skip to my |ou 781 said:
if you are a good looking bad boy, you are fine, but ugly ones are still not going to get any
I'm going to have to disagree homie --- if you would say that you have less of a probability to get that hor if you are not to par with the rest of humanity then I agree, but to make blanket statements is in error!!!!
 
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skip to my |ou 781 said:
bro, i got mad respect for you. we have barely ever fought, but here you are wrong man. ugly is ugly. sorry:down:
"ugly" is a relative term!!!! 80% of the women,,,,errrrr, hors with babies look ugly to me, yet, a man's penis was erect enough to inject his sperm into the unmarried hor and impregnated her with his life sperm - explain this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Let me explain my perspective - I live in the city with the most unmarried teenage hor pregnancy rate in the country and the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My property taxes are paying for these hors living a comfortable life and supporting their hor babies upbringing for 18 years!!!!!! There are hundreds of thousands in my city alone!!!!! There are hundreds of millions hors and hor babies countrywide in America!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last Man Standing said:
Let me explain my perspective - I live in the city with the most unmarried teenage hor pregnancy rate in the country and the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My property taxes are paying for these hors living a comfortable life and supporting their hor babies upbringing for 18 years!!!!!! There are hundreds of thousands in my city alone!!!!! There are hundreds of millions hors and hor babies countrywide in America!!!!!
I love hors. They have nice soft skin, they smell nice, they have cute faces and they just fulfill my heart when they work their little tongues around my penis. They also like to cuddle afterwards. They are just PRECIOUS. Its just that they are precious for me and other men. So, you always wrap it.

Don't hate them - LOVE THEM!
 
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Hors are good for pimps -- but these hors devastate the tax rate and men's peace of mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can I get an "AMEN" from somebody???????
 

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yeah you fukcin wh0re ratssss(aka hood rats) , ay00 that's straight up grimy, you nuttin before you fukc the real beautiful, aka good genes, slutty b!tchesss that got classs....right now you ashyy...you need to convert to being classy LOL

LMS - Amen LOL
 

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Last Man Standing said:
"ugly" is a relative term!!!! 80% of the women,,,,errrrr, hors with babies look ugly to me, yet, a man's penis was erect enough to inject his sperm into the unmarried hor and impregnated her with his life sperm - explain this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Damn, I know I am feeding the troll here, but I am with LMS here. Ugly is not ugly. So many things interfere with it. If I were going for LTRs I am certain I would think more than twice about her personality. Looks would be second place guaranteed.

ATTRACTION is essential. But for LTRs, there is soooo much more at play.
 

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Babnik said:
After so many posts, I still have no idea what it means to be a bad boy or to be hard to get...


Its NOT possible to get me to really care or need a girl.
Its NOT possible to get me to EVER compliment, submit, or be below any woman.


But ah... its easy to get me in bed. However, I have yet to have a girl who would obviously TRY to get me in bed. They could be suggestive, but I just grab'em and do'em.

Which part is bad? I don't please their ego. I please their sexuality, but if I go for sex on 1st date - doesn't that make me EASY?

I don't grasp that concept really... Or maybe its because I like shy girls who don't make any moves and don't do anything and let ME do things?
The heart of a bad boys character is his INABILITY to FOLLOW THE RULES. He lives life by his OWN TERMS(by his own rules). In essense he is a NATURAL MALE. And what is natural has ALWAYS had effect on us.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rakishness said:
The heart of a bad boys character is his INABILITY to FOLLOW THE RULES. He lives life by his OWN TERMS(by his own rules). In essense he is a NATURAL MALE. And what is natural has ALWAYS had effect on us.
Bad...break law, go to jail then prison. Prison = no sex...
 

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Babnik said:
Bad...break law, go to jail then prison. Prison = no sex...
Wrong. Prison=lots of anal rapage, no hetero sex
 

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The Shocker said:
Wrong. Prison=lots of anal rapage, no hetero sex
...so thats whats being a DJ is all about...:rockon:
 
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