"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Embarrassing birthmark

saber101

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hey everybody

this is really awkward for me to talk about, but i have a rather embarrassing birthmark on my scalp. It shows when i cut my hair short. I really prefer short hair over long hair. I look better with short hair, and usually get more attention from women with short hair. However it really lowers my confidence when its exposed like that. Sometimes i even catch some women staring at it which is a total confidence crusher. So basically i get more good attention, but also some bad attention too. I just got a haircut this afternoon, so i'll have to deal with it at school on monday anyways, but i was just wondering what i should do about it. Grow my hair out and hide it, keep it short? If anyone has any avice i would really appreciate it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kev07

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Just go with what you like, you say you like short hair, go with that. I would assume that after a minute or two of first seeing your birthmark, they should stop caring.

it's like

"whoa wtf is that?" then after talking for a few minutes you won't even think about it anymore.
 

Charm&Style

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what kind of birthmark is it bro?


You say you get more attention from women with short hair right? Thats great then, use that feeling we all get when we recieve attention to your advantage to boost up your confidence and to forget about your birthmark.

In fact it can be used to ur advantage.

I had a friend, great guy, the type of guy girls find adorable and love being with, true player. Anyways he too had a birthmark on his head, you know what he did though when he caught girls looking at it...??

He Used to C&F, its amazing how it worked. It started up a convo, and that instant the girls would melt for him becuz he was sucha an awesum dude.

Anyways dont let your scar get to ya man, we all have impefections, thank god that your healthy as hell, can think right, and so on the list goes.

Just think about something funny to say, and let your personality take over.


peace


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saber101

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Charm&Style said:
what kind of birthmark is it bro?


You say you get more attention from women with short hair right? Thats great then, use that feeling we all get when we recieve attention to your advantage to boost up your confidence and to forget about your birthmark.

In fact it can be used to ur advantage.

I had a friend, great guy, the type of guy girls find adorable and love being with, true player. Anyways he too had a birthmark on his head, you know what he did though when he caught girls looking at it...??

He Used to C&F, its amazing how it worked. It started up a convo, and that instant the girls would melt for him becuz he was sucha an awesum dude.

Anyways dont let your scar get to ya man, we all have impefections, thank god that your healthy as hell, can think right, and so on the list goes.

Just think about something funny to say, and let your personality take over.


peace


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Thanks man. Good advice.

Its like a black circular birth mark, about the size of a pea. but my skin is lighter around it so it sticks out more
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JLW

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The size of a pea?

Oh come on man. That's nothing. I mean unless it's a really gross festering wart, it doesn't sound bad at all.

And even if it is a disgusting festering wart, who cares? You look better with short hair. you said it yourself. You get more attention from women when you have short hair. So there's your answer.
 

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Are you sure you're not just getting more attention with shorter hair because your birthmark begins to show?
 

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DonDan said:
Are you sure you're not just getting more attention with shorter hair because your birthmark begins to show?
no i dont want it to show. I don't need that kind of attention. Besides no one comments on it they just stare at it
 

dannowillbookem

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tell them you got shot in the skull and make up a big story about tackling a guy robbing a bank and getting kidnapped cause of it and they tried to execute you but you fought them off with a bullet in your brain. etc.
 

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birthmark? nahhh my friend was getting jumped i stepped in guy with a knife glanced my scalp, but i dropped him. thank god i dont know what id do without my best bud. hey im deadaim btw whats your number. ahh danno kinda beat me to it, although that big story thing is a bad idea, gotta be believable. unless you wanna go over the top to make her laugh.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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deadaim89

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lucky **** i wish i had a birthmark like that, you have no idea how id work that.
 

dannowillbookem

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deadaim89 said:
birthmark? nahhh my friend was getting jumped i stepped in guy with a knife glanced my scalp, but i dropped him. thank god i dont know what id do without my best bud. hey im deadaim btw whats your number. ahh danno kinda beat me to it, although that big story thing is a bad idea, gotta be believable. unless you wanna go over the top to make her laugh.
well you dont want to make her think youre bruce willis in bandits. make some random massive lie up and support its god breathed. even get a buddy to back it up and grow the lie over time. this is a really underrated way to avoid bordem.
 
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