Embarrasing Problem

[TIC]

Here's the deal: I'm speedy gonzalas when it comes to sex. I don't last long at all. Last time after she gave me a bj, I almost came as soon as I stuck it in. I had to pull out quickly because I have no condoms. How do I stay hard for a long time without finishing?

Also is it true that beating off alot will help you last longer? Srry if I sound dumb but I'm a noob at sex

 

[DonGello]

Assuming this IS a serious post..

When you jerk it, don't make it a race to orgasm, when you get close.. stop.. and continue on.. until you repeat.

Then keep the time going up (10 to 20min - 1 hour)
Helps build will power, self control (both mentally and physically)

Or.. spend time on foreplay, probably the best way to help a woman to orgasm because of oral and hand contact, helps relax her (kissing neck, lips, etc. BE adventurous with kissing) and btw an orgasm for a woman is as much mental as it is physical because its the point where she finally just lets go.. talked to my girlfriend about it and now things are quite happy on my side of the woods as well.
+ Foreplay is keeping you from going straight for it and prolonged the entire experience

Or it could have an alternate cause, but thats just some suggestions mate.

 

[DiamondNtheRough]

wear a condom. If that doesnt work go get you some Lidocaine and put it on your ****. I promise you wont feel a fvcking thing. Bang out that little girly all night.

 

[TIC]

Alright so I'll beat off more for longer periods and stop right at the point of no return alot

 

[CuriousGirl]

Can't tell you how to hold off but to work around it go for lots of foreplay with the girl so she's ready to come or has orgasmed once/twice already. The lips, ****/ general opening is sensitive so for holding off in sex you could try really really shallow thrusts or just rubbing the head around her slit, there's nothing wrong with coming the first time you enter if she's coming too. The good thing with this is that comes across as you're just teasing her, and if you do come quickly make out it's all her, you just can't resist her etc. (also generally the more ego boosting you do for your partner, the more they'll open up and the confidence will always mean better sex)..I digress..

Keep in mind that because for a lot of women it's psychological different things will work on different women, but I think as women get older they're much more in tune with their bodies and all sorts will work.

It doesn't have to be a problem, you can still have a great time in bed.