"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bawb14

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Hi guys embarassing issue here. Uhm, the last girl I was with , when we made out it was kinda bad, like there was a lot of... saliva... and it was kinda awkward. Im not sure if it was my fault or hers, but im kinda getting worried now, because i'm going places with the current girl, but uhh, I'm worried that I kiss bad. Uhm... sorry this is embarassing... are there any... pointers... or anything .... to.. monitor//worry about ... during the... actual... er... making out.. process... to uhh be better..? so to speak..

thanks, and sorry for the horrible grammar of my text-block.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ultrafine

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do you have some kind of disease?
u seem alittle retarded to me

Play it off like it was no big deal and dont forget to grow a pair or two
 
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suavesuave

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hahaha i know who u r ...i will make fun of you in school now. hahaha
 

navyseal2101

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ahah, dont worry about it dude... "too much" may just be in your head, if shes still into it dont worry about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SinJester

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Chill, it's not a big deal. You will get better. I kind of had an experiance like this, thought about it a bit a while later and realized it was the girl. She might be worrying just like you are! Really you can't give real pointers over the internet, you just need practise. The only thing I can really say is always have a mint on hand :p

But seriously whats with the n00bs giving this guy crap? Get a life.
 

Axcell

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Is it your first time or one of your first times?
I've heard that first time kissers often make many mistakes such as this... you'll get better over time.

Also, were you hungry? Make sure you eat. Saliva might have been secreted as a result of your body wanting food. (In your body there is a part called the medula oblongata in your brain which controls saliva secretition. If your body is hungry, saliva is automatically secreted.)
 

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Gracias, now that I think about it, It may have just been the last girl I was with... and thanks for the hunger pointer. Good job fellas!:p
 

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In my opinion kissing is one of those things that really can't be explained, and besides people have different ideas about what good kissing is. Just go practice and have fun.

We can't give you pointers, but if you want to improve, just pay close attention to the girl. If you try something and she seems more into it, probably good. If she pulls back or seeems less into it, she probably didn't like it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if you have to wipe your mouth after making out, you know that either your going to fast, opening your mouth too big, or being too sloppy

keep it small, then build up

cuz that sounds pretty gross, just imagine what shes thinking.... "ew"
 

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Noob said:
eat a mint or gum like 5 mins before you meet her, always take the lead when kissing - dont make it auquard. kiss her when and where YOU want.
I agree with all the points except about the "eat a mint or gum 5 minutes before you meet her"
From personal experience, do NOT do this. Most girls, but I can't say all, don't like kissing guys who just took a mint and still have the minty taste in their mouth.
If you are worried about bad breath, take it 20 minutes before you meet her so there isn't that original strong scent of mint. Who knows, maybe your girl will, but from what I have learned, that isn't always the case.
 

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Thanks gentlemen for your information! It was all helpful but now is redundant! Mission accomplished, no bumps on takeoff or landing. ;)
 

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Axcell said:
I've heard that first time kissers often make many mistakes
I don't about that. My first kiss was actually enjoyable. Thats because I watched loads of 'how to kiss' videos on youtube. I know it seems kinda of lame but it's great practice and it helps you not make mistakes on actual girls. Those videos helped alot too. Go ahead and ask the girl yourself :cool:
 
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