"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am really into this girl but she keeps making emasculating comments. for example I am a pretty alpha guy and confident but she keeps trying to kind of get control over me. I know it is some kind of test but she will call me 'a baby' and if she can't make a date she will say stuff like, 'you're sweet' and 'don't cry about it'. I really like this girl apart from this part of her personality and want it to stop but more importantly I want to respond to it in a DJ way. she is always iniatiting contact with me so I don't think I'm putting too much into it.

how can I respond to these comments properly? right now I've just kind of blown them off and said I would do something else etc

Thanks in advance guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agree and amplify.

"A baby? I AM a big baby, I need to be breast fed! :p "
"baby? Well, I do have a baby arm"

"sweet, I am sweet, that's why all the ladies love me" (expect eye rolls)

"I won't cry, do you think your sister/best friend/slut she hates will go with me instead? What's her number? lol"

Just off the top of my head, im sure you can think of something wittier. Sometimes stupid statements warrant stupid responses. Just say it with a smile in your voice or an emoticon on text. Devil may care attitude is the way forward.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/
 
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