Emailing Chicks?

[Maximummax]

I had very negative results while emailing women i am supposed to see/meet.
What do you guys(Senior DJ's) think about it
I also noticed that the longer the email is, the more IL drops down. I learned the shorter and mysterious you are its better. I think the same thing with Texting too.

 

[Boilermaker]

in my experience too, email didn't seem to shine through.
No matter what you write and how you write it, it's an awkward way of communication.

try to minimize it. meet in person, don't be too eager, mystery and all other rules apply.

text is not so bad because today's generation is too used to it. But they are not used to email like that.

cheers,

 

[The Duke]

Emailing instead of calling conveys the fact that you lack the confidence to actually pick up the phone and talk. Thats why you are failing. Its also very impersonal. Call them once and leave a message. You'll find that a lot of girls lack confidence to talk on the phone and won't answer/return a phone call. But you still leave a good impression by making the attempt. If she won't call back then shoot a text message.

 

[Colossus]

I have NEVER had any success with email and dating. Obviously with online dating you need to email to set up a date but as far as actual email....you might as well just bury your d!ck in the dirt.

 

[Lexington]

I'm 27 and to me e-mail is just weird medium for personal communication. I'm sure it's even weirder for most chicks. In this age of cell phones, texting, Facebook, Twitter etc. e-mail is about the last tool I would use for personal communication. E-mail is mostly for business or maybe to talk with someone in another country (and even that's being replaced with tools like Skype).

I know a lot of older PUA material (e.g. David DeAngelo) encourages you to use e-mail but times have changed. Texting or calling is the way to go.

 

[Nutz]

Its all about investment levels. Face to face is better than calling which is better than texting which is better than email or instant messaging. When you get into a back and forth exchange you are builing comfort without any intimacy AND you lose so much of the message.

A wise man once said the message you send is rarely the message received.

 

[Slickster]

This discussion about whether to call, text, email, whatever is so stupid.

No one can argue that texting is a superior form of communication. The only argument I've heard is that chicks don't answer their phone so you have to text them. Bullsh!t!!!

I work in close contact with a lot of young women and they live on their phones. When they are interested in a guy, they answer the phone and are excited to do so.

Texting or email is easy and convenient but it is extremely limiting. You are wasting your time trying to improve your "text game" if you don't have the actual verbal communication skills to back it up.

In the future texting will be viewed as a dinosaur-like form of communication. It's happening already with things like Skype, Facetime, etc.

You are looking for an easy way out. Grow a pair of balls and call her! If you did your job of raising her IL when you got the digits then she will answer. If not, your text game isn't going to help you either.

The truth is, if your verbal communication skills were great you would choose to call her everytime.

 

[ilikecharlene]

SMS is outdated, and too 90s lol.. As most people now have smartphones, BBM or some other IM application must be better for texting.

I think the key to good tech flirting is being ****y and funny, and short and sweet. Be ****y and funny enough to pique her interest, and short and sweet as not to bore her.