"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Emailed a girl from www.match.com

Heyjose25points

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I emailed her, but it turns out that she goes to the same University i go to. Which has 9,000 people. I just hope word doesn't get around of me using match this fall.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Think about it she obviously uses it and if she’s human she is going to be just as embarrassed as you and won’t say anything.

BUT the real problem is WHY ARE YOU USING MATCH. You go to uni man I mean 9000 people at uni lets say there’s 500 single girls that’s enough uni is so easy to pickup. I DONT EVEN GO TO UNI AND I PICKUP AT UNI. I think you should take your left hand of the key board and your right hand of your d**k and get away from your computer so you can find a real girl even if she’s ugly it’s better than a net chick.

At least you will get to socialize face to face. Plus if you can’t keep together a relationship with a real girl you think a net girl will be different. Get your ass of your chair get out there and meet a girl at least there you can learn from your mistakes and than eventually you can get a gf or a root.
 

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Get your ass of your chair get out there and meet a girl at least there you can learn from your mistakes and than eventually you can get a gf or a root.
"root"? haha.

Thanks for the post dude, that changed my outlook on how much opportunity i truly have.
 

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Originally posted by Heyjose25points
"root"? haha.
Im from Australia we say root

Originally posted by Heyjose25points
Thanks for the post dude, that changed my outlook on how much opportunity i truly have.
Is that a suttle attempt at sarcasm? or are you serious
 

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I'm dead serious man. No sarcasm on my part. I didn't have much luck durin my first year, but just realize it was cuz i didn't try much. I just "Finally" realized how many females there are: 60% to 40% of males.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you dudes keep forgeting that quite a number of these women only use things like match.com for a ego boost if she is a college student she is by no means ugly is she? .. they are all insecure *****es.

i made a mistake 2 years ago by sending my picture to this girl at my uni.. and after seeing me in school im sure she lost all respect for me.. becos they way i act ppl think im the ****.. to later find out that a cool dude like myself was linking online.. that put a blow to my ego. dude you at uni leave online dating alone. except you are very busy.
 
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