Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Emailed a girl from www.match.com

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I emailed her, but it turns out that she goes to the same University i go to. Which has 9,000 people. I just hope word doesn't get around of me using match this fall.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Think about it she obviously uses it and if she’s human she is going to be just as embarrassed as you and won’t say anything.

BUT the real problem is WHY ARE YOU USING MATCH. You go to uni man I mean 9000 people at uni lets say there’s 500 single girls that’s enough uni is so easy to pickup. I DONT EVEN GO TO UNI AND I PICKUP AT UNI. I think you should take your left hand of the key board and your right hand of your d**k and get away from your computer so you can find a real girl even if she’s ugly it’s better than a net chick.

At least you will get to socialize face to face. Plus if you can’t keep together a relationship with a real girl you think a net girl will be different. Get your ass of your chair get out there and meet a girl at least there you can learn from your mistakes and than eventually you can get a gf or a root.
 

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Get your ass of your chair get out there and meet a girl at least there you can learn from your mistakes and than eventually you can get a gf or a root.
"root"? haha.

Thanks for the post dude, that changed my outlook on how much opportunity i truly have.
 

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Originally posted by Heyjose25points
"root"? haha.
Im from Australia we say root

Originally posted by Heyjose25points
Thanks for the post dude, that changed my outlook on how much opportunity i truly have.
Is that a suttle attempt at sarcasm? or are you serious
 

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I'm dead serious man. No sarcasm on my part. I didn't have much luck durin my first year, but just realize it was cuz i didn't try much. I just "Finally" realized how many females there are: 60% to 40% of males.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you dudes keep forgeting that quite a number of these women only use things like match.com for a ego boost if she is a college student she is by no means ugly is she? .. they are all insecure *****es.

i made a mistake 2 years ago by sending my picture to this girl at my uni.. and after seeing me in school im sure she lost all respect for me.. becos they way i act ppl think im the ****.. to later find out that a cool dude like myself was linking online.. that put a blow to my ego. dude you at uni leave online dating alone. except you are very busy.
 
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