"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Email to a girl

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Hi,

I have seen a girl in my college, she works there,

i know her email,
and want to write something to her to start to know her,
but,
what is a good email message to start with?


thanks for any response...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CORVETTE06

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thats stalkerish if you never spoke to her before and you send her an Email.

Go meet her in person and strike up a convo with her.
 

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Don't send the email!!!!!
 

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i HOPE that you are ****ing with us right now asking that

cuz if your not, then you are a creepy weird anti social retard

sorry, its true
 

bukowski_merit

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yeah man. read up on here and learn how to approach her in person.

i HAVE emailed women at work that i've barely known before (with great success).

but to just randomly email some girl you find attractive at school? that's very strange... she'll be creeped out and won't care what you look like... unless she's strange herself...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chevelle

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I used a similar tactic years ago, while in college. Trust me when i say it is suicide!
 

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This can't be real. How could you even know what so suave is and think to do that? In any case, no don't send it.
 

Lexie

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Yeah, it would be really weird to get an email from someone you don't know. I think you would be immediately written off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chance

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haha. yeah i've heard it from alot of girls. they would think that's creepy and probably wouldn't reply. if anything, you'd probably just scare her.
 

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send her a naked picture of yourself
 
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