RandomGuy
Don Juan
What do u guys do when u email her and she dont remember you?
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Email problems, a little help from you experts
- Thread starter RandomGuy
- Start date
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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RandomGuy
Don Juan
Come on dude, i don think that what true don juaners do.
I at least wanna show her my true personality before i next her.
I at least wanna show her my true personality before i next her.
ZeeOwl
Senior Don Juan
Could you give us a little background info on the situation... Where did you meet this girl? How did you first contact her? How long ago did you meet her? How long ago was your last contact with her (before this eMail)? Describe the relationship you two had between the time you met and the last time you talked.
Player_Supreme
Banned
1. I live in Sacramento also.
2. It's your true personality that got you unremembered.
3. Your goal is to seduce her. To do that you need "intel" get her life story. Find out everything about her. Fu*ckin Aol just cleaned out my email old box or I would show you an example of the smoker broad I talked about under Kinjo's post. I got her life story and she sent me an email hoping I wasn't scared away.
No she gave me the seeds for her seduction and how to handle her.
4. Spend your first few contacts getting that history. About past relationships...what happened...(I know some guys say don't do this but I feel you need the info).
5. Stay ****y and funny with her during the whole process and end each contact flirting sexually with her:
*********
past issue's do not bother me, since we all have them. No I am not skurr'd...
You look kinda sexy this mornin in your blue dress. I wanted to hit yo ass sum moe. Hell I wanted to give you a spankin babygirl
*******
be slightly flirtatious at first to test the waters. don't jump into my style unless it's already your personality.
Shadow Dancer
Senior Don Juan
You want to know what to do if she doesn't remember you? First thing you should do is stop asking bonehead questions. lol.
Look, just remind her. If she still doesn't remember, drop it (about her remembering you) and start chatting with her. Be ****y and funny and it won't matter if she remembers you from before cause soon she'll be meeting you again. Catch my drift?
Bust on her for having a bad memory. Tell her that the chemicals in her makeup must have seeped in and affected her memory. Then say something like, "Man, I don't know if this relationship is gonna work out. If you can't even remember who I am, how do you plan on remembering where you'll be taking me to dinner?".
She might shoot back with something like, "I don't plan on taking you to dinner."
Come back with, "Of course not. Because I don't go out with women who have bad memories. I thought we just covered that."
etc., etc., etc..
Keep at it.
-Shadow
Look, just remind her. If she still doesn't remember, drop it (about her remembering you) and start chatting with her. Be ****y and funny and it won't matter if she remembers you from before cause soon she'll be meeting you again. Catch my drift?
Bust on her for having a bad memory. Tell her that the chemicals in her makeup must have seeped in and affected her memory. Then say something like, "Man, I don't know if this relationship is gonna work out. If you can't even remember who I am, how do you plan on remembering where you'll be taking me to dinner?".
She might shoot back with something like, "I don't plan on taking you to dinner."
Come back with, "Of course not. Because I don't go out with women who have bad memories. I thought we just covered that."
etc., etc., etc..
Keep at it.
-Shadow
RandomGuy
Don Juan
Okay heres how i met her.
I met her at my sisters bday picnick around 2 mos. ago. I introduced myself to her and went off to play volleyball with my friends. She left during that time so i didnt have time to close her.
One day at my school ( about a month ago), i saw this one farmiliar girl who kept on looking at me. I didnt know it was her, i stilled aproached her and said hi. She said do you remember me? i finnally figured out where we had met. We talked for a couple mins and i asked for her number but she said she didnt have one and tell me to give her mine instead. I am thinking in my head, this is BS! still i tried to be funny and ****y and said: Wat? How do u communicate then? 2 cups and a string? She laughed and insist that she doesnt have a cell phone, and want my number. So i gave her my number and next her, thinking if she calls me back great, if not thats it.
2 weeks ago to my suprise she called me back and asked me to go see her performing for some fashion show. I told her i have plans that night with my friends already (which i do), but give me ur email address so we can keep in touch. She did.
That night my friends went to see the exact same show. As i didnt anticipate this and i didnt know if this was the exact show that she memtioned. I met her afterward and she approached me to say hi. We talked for a couple mins. I tried to be ****y and funny and said, you were great during the show, i am sure it takes a lot of practice to open and close those curtains. I said bye and left with my friends to have dinner.
At the restuarant, i met her again later when she came and eat too. Weird coincident. She came up to me and said hi again. She left to go eat with her friends at another table and said to meet afterward. I left afterward w/o saying bye cuz the damn food was stinky and i didnt have any gum
So i emailed her 1 week later and she forgot who i am. Wtf?
I dont wanna remind her who i am cuz that would put me in disadvantage. Any way around this?
I met her at my sisters bday picnick around 2 mos. ago. I introduced myself to her and went off to play volleyball with my friends. She left during that time so i didnt have time to close her.
One day at my school ( about a month ago), i saw this one farmiliar girl who kept on looking at me. I didnt know it was her, i stilled aproached her and said hi. She said do you remember me? i finnally figured out where we had met. We talked for a couple mins and i asked for her number but she said she didnt have one and tell me to give her mine instead. I am thinking in my head, this is BS! still i tried to be funny and ****y and said: Wat? How do u communicate then? 2 cups and a string? She laughed and insist that she doesnt have a cell phone, and want my number. So i gave her my number and next her, thinking if she calls me back great, if not thats it.
2 weeks ago to my suprise she called me back and asked me to go see her performing for some fashion show. I told her i have plans that night with my friends already (which i do), but give me ur email address so we can keep in touch. She did.
That night my friends went to see the exact same show. As i didnt anticipate this and i didnt know if this was the exact show that she memtioned. I met her afterward and she approached me to say hi. We talked for a couple mins. I tried to be ****y and funny and said, you were great during the show, i am sure it takes a lot of practice to open and close those curtains. I said bye and left with my friends to have dinner.
At the restuarant, i met her again later when she came and eat too. Weird coincident. She came up to me and said hi again. She left to go eat with her friends at another table and said to meet afterward. I left afterward w/o saying bye cuz the damn food was stinky and i didnt have any gum
So i emailed her 1 week later and she forgot who i am. Wtf?
I dont wanna remind her who i am cuz that would put me in disadvantage. Any way around this?
RandomGuy
Don Juan
Shadow Dancer, i gotta love your reply. haha
I like your idea on busting her about how her make up affects her memory and that I dont go out with girls that have bad memories.
Thnks Man
I wont be emailing her back until Monday, so i would still appreciate any suggestiongs on reminding her who i am w/o putting me at a disadvantage. Because either she sincerely forgot or she is f*cking with me and lied that she forgot who i am. Either way, reminding her where we met, how i look, the circumstances and such just makes her think that i am some weak dude who remember everythign about her and that i have nothing better to remember.
I like your idea on busting her about how her make up affects her memory and that I dont go out with girls that have bad memories.
Thnks Man
I wont be emailing her back until Monday, so i would still appreciate any suggestiongs on reminding her who i am w/o putting me at a disadvantage. Because either she sincerely forgot or she is f*cking with me and lied that she forgot who i am. Either way, reminding her where we met, how i look, the circumstances and such just makes her think that i am some weak dude who remember everythign about her and that i have nothing better to remember.
ZeeOwl
Senior Don Juan
I'd go for B: she's messing with you. Maybe because you left the restaurant without saying bye?... Women have a natural tendency to remember every little detail, and they forgive nothing. Either that or this girl has some serious synaptic problems (is she over 70?
). lol Though to know for sure I'd have to know what you wrote in your eMail.I'd talk about the restaurant, since that was the latest event. Tell her you're sorry about leaving without saying bye, and make up some C&F excuse. Adding "curtains, fashion show" might help. Though like I said, she might be plssed at you for ignoring her, and this is just an act to get revenge. So don't go overboard on the C&F. From what you wrote, I get the feeling she gave you some pretty good IL signs, and you blew her off several times.
RandomGuy
Don Juan
No she's not 70, shes 19
To answer your question about the content of the email.
I think i made several mistake when i emailed her. First off, i forgot her name cuz when i wrote down her email adress, i forgot to write down her name at the top too.
So in the email, i just said my name and apologized for forgetting her name with some c&f.
the thing is, i am pretty damn sure that she would remember me thats why i didnt bother to remind her.
second mistake was I also asked her out for a cup of coffe on wednesday to get to know each other better. While i only emailed her 2 days earlier (monday), but the b!tch emailed me back on thursday, 1 day after the offer.
She said she forgot who i am and would love to get to know me better and asked me to remind her(where we met, what school we go to, ect). and that she said she doubt the coffe offer because its thursday already. ***SHE didn't make a counter offer***
What do u guys think?
To answer your question about the content of the email.
I think i made several mistake when i emailed her. First off, i forgot her name cuz when i wrote down her email adress, i forgot to write down her name at the top too.
So in the email, i just said my name and apologized for forgetting her name with some c&f.
the thing is, i am pretty damn sure that she would remember me thats why i didnt bother to remind her.
second mistake was I also asked her out for a cup of coffe on wednesday to get to know each other better. While i only emailed her 2 days earlier (monday), but the b!tch emailed me back on thursday, 1 day after the offer.
She said she forgot who i am and would love to get to know me better and asked me to remind her(where we met, what school we go to, ect). and that she said she doubt the coffe offer because its thursday already. ***SHE didn't make a counter offer***
What do u guys think?
ZeeOwl
Senior Don Juan
You forgot her name too? Geez! When she came to see you at the restaurant, did she remember your's? If she did, then she's definitely plssed. She's been doing all sorts of thinks to show you she's interested. You keep blowing her off. Then you write her an eMail like she's some random chick you just number closed... You getting my drift here? I'd let this one cool off for a while. Forget eMail. Wait until you run into her again, go talk to her in person, and see what vibes she's sending you.
Sounds like she's playing (revenge) games on you. You rejected her, so now she's rejecting you.
RandomGuy
Don Juan
Okay, i never rejected her. and yes she remembered my name at the fashion show and she remembered it when she called me 2 weeks ago.