Email Message Advice ....

[TouchSpark]

Ok for the past month or so I have been seeing (like 4 times) this really cute indian girl around our building. I have smiled at her and said 'Hi' and got a positive response. This one time as I came out the lift I could feel someone looking at me and as I turned she was there smiling at me in that way that you just know she is interested.

Anyway I have just found out she has moved jobs internally to a seperate building and I want to ping her a quick email and would really appriciate any good pointers. She works in a seperate department, in a seperate building and I plan to move jobs in the new years so I really couldnt give a chuff about the consequences ...

I was thinking something like ...


".... so I have seen you around <office name> once or twice, have said hi and the next time I saw you I was going to find out your name and ask you if you were free for a drink ... but then you go and move jobs! ... whats a guy to do? ...."

or

".... so I have seen you around <office name> once or twice, have said hi and the next time I saw you I was going to find out your name and ask you if you were free for a drink ... but then you go and move jobs! ... whats a guy to do? ...."

or I need something C&F ....

.... so I have seen you around <office name> once or twice, have said hi and the next time I saw you I was going to find out your name and ask you if you were free for a drink ... but then you go and move jobs! ..... do you always play hard to get? ...."


No flamers and negativity will be ignored.

 

[Warrior74]

No flamers and negativity will be ignored = I will do what I want to do, regardless of if my gut is telling me it's wrong. How do I know my gut is telling me its wrong? Because I'm posting about it on sosuave instead of posting a field report of what I already did and learned from it.

*end of negativity (LOL)*

Screw the email then...since you plan on doing this regardless. Do it like a man. Make an excuse to be in her building and speak to her. Have an actual convo. Then email her or better yet call her and ask her to lunch. Move slower with a coworker...even if she is in another building. If lunch goes well...ask her to hang out or go do something fun. Good luck.

random email to someone you haven't had a convo with = slightly stalkerish imo.

 

[COD]

how do u even have her email, how is she going to know its from you.......do U have a picture attached.

I would use the anonymimity "mystery" in your favor.

Send a quick post like "you are kinda cute, when are U free" are are you up for some adventure.