“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quiksilver

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Hey dudes

I got an email from this chick I was into afew months ago. We had a history together(went to same elementary school, never really talked tho). I used to see her sometimes at a store she worked at, and I said hi once, and told her we should hang out sometime...Sort of in a social way, wasn't really pressing for digits or anything, and then left without asking for info or anything.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago.

It was like 1AM, and because of the gas shortage around here I went to fill up the car early in the morning, incase the station ran out in the morning.
So I'm at the gas station, feeling like ****, not got my game face on or anything, you know? So I'm paying the guy at the register, turn around...and guess who's standing there? The only other freakin person in the gas station at 1AM on a monday night...is her. Now I don't believe in fate or destiny or anything, but that was uncanny. I would have stayed to talk but I was exhausted, so just pretended not to recognize her and walked out.

Fast forward to this afternoon(friday)

I get an email message from..guess who..

"umm kind of creepy..i think i saw you at a gas station like last week..but i wasnt totally sure...and i was high as a kite:) hahaha but anyway we should drink..and no i am not an alcoholic"

She added me on myspace awhile ago too, and I teased her about being an alcoholic, if you're wondering.

So yeah...I'll probably make a move, but I'm pretty busy tonite so thats not an option..Do you guys think there's any interest?

I'm thinkin of DHVing abit, since she's really really and I mean really good-looking(cheerleader captain). Thinkin of telling her something like "Uhh mabye, I dunno if I can trust you though, you know what they say about cheerleaders.."

Opinions on whether there is interest there or not would be welcome. It sometimes helps to have a 3rd person perspective, ya know?

peace bros
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vorbis

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dude, she asks you out of nowhere to go out for a drink!!!

How many signs do you want? They don't get more obvious than that.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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To have a girl try to initiate anything is either:

1) A sign of interest
2) A sign that she's an attention wh0re/tease

Call her out on her invitation and see where that goes. It's the only way to find out. If she flakes or brushes it off, she's being a tease and forget about her.
 

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I sent her a reply yesterday, just thought I'd show here for kicks. She's actually one of the hottest pieces of ass i've known, but I'm still not going be obedient to her like most of the other guys she knows...She's pretty bubbly and might have a boyfriend, so I'm playing this one a little more laid back, not gonna go chasing or anything.

"hah i remember that. thought u looked familiar, and yeah you looked stoned, come to think of it i was pretty trashed too. drink eh? dunno about that <name>, you know what they say about cheerleaders"
 

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Lay The Pipe
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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