"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Originally posted by San
Thnx all for the words spoken.

It has been a while since the break up and with each day passing i'm glad it's over.

The thing is when you're totally into a woman/girl you become blind for certain things and get tp focused or fixated.

Now this was a good lesson for me laid upon me from above.

Although i still love her i wouldn't want anything to do with her, because she's just not my type of woman.
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It's easy to become blinded by all of the good things a person has to offer so that we neglect to see the deal breakers.

A positive thing about the board is that it helps us look past the good parts of a relationship when there are some dark and dangerous aspects to it.

I agree that it was a good lesson for you. I am glad that you have the opportunity to discus it here. Just do not buy into all of the woman hating. This one was just a bad apple.

As a reader, I'm disappointed that you still love her but I'm glad that you follow up with "she's not my type." This girl falls into one of the following categories: she's young, she's short on the intelligence, or she is an emotional volcano who behaves impulsively and has the potential to get her man into a lot of trouble.

penkitten's response is 100% believable regarding this girl's intentions for sending you the email. Real women who are tough enough to deal with their emotions will not send these retaliatory letters. I take that back. Even some of the most labile, obnoxious psycho freaks out there will have the decency to refrain from behaving this way. I read her email and I think that she's a confused little girl. If you're interested in her friends, I hope they have more going on inside their heads that she has.

This was fun. I think you did the right thing blocking her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ignoring her is the best action you could take.


Unless you want to be totally mean and do as Slickster said & e-mail it to her family, friends...and new boyfriend! Send her something like...

(Her name here) PLEASE!!!

You have to stop stalking me! You broke up with me because you said you didn't want to give me herpies! Are you still taking your schitzophrenea medication? You sound a little off balance again.

Best wishes,

(Your name here)
 
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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Ignoring her is the best action you could take.


Unless you want to be totally mean and do as Slickster said & e-mail it to her family, friends...and new boyfriend! Send her something like...

(Her name here) PLEASE!!!

You have to stop stalking me! You broke up with me because you said you didn't want to give me herpies! Are you still taking your schitzophrenea medication? You sound a little off balance again.

Best wishes,

(Your name here)
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omigod watertiger that effin rocks !!
 
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Do what Water Tiger stated above!!!

Her comments should make you feel good because you now know how she really is on the inside - she is a rotten hor decayed from within and her flesh will soon follow and she will age into an old hor at the age of 30 - be happy you didn't end up with this chick!!!

How could you love such a hor in the first place????? You must reevaluate your thinking on what you value in a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Yeah, my block seems to work great! Haven't heard anything from her a while.

I could do all those nasty things like sending/forwarding the nasty email she send me but that's just not my kinda move.

Remember: it was her decision to choose for the other guy (and this wasn't the 1st time in our relationship), so she left me with no choice for me being a don juan, then to agree with the break up and move on, like some of you sad.. this was just a bad apple for me and in the past it did hurt me plenty.

But as time passes by you tend to get an birdseye view on the matter(s) and i can say now: i'm better off without her.

Well.. change is the spice of life they say.. ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Also, a very important thing in a relationship is to accept/understand the differences between man and woman and how to correctly deal with it if you want to maintain a healthy & steady LTR full of magic!

You can also read this in; "Man are from Mars and Woman are from Venus" which i consider as a must read for anybody on this forum!
 
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