"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So last night I got an email address from a really sexy girl I met clubbing. The problem was I was way too drunk and the music was so loud we couldn't understand each other. I can't remember exactly the conversation we had but I seem to recall a feeling that I'd blown it somehow by the end, on account of being drunk and largely incomprehensible! Normally I'd just chalk this down to experience and bin the email, but since there's nothing to lose I'm thinking I might as well send her a mail and see what happens.

I'm basically looking for opinions on how to follow this up without coming across as an AFC. My feeling is that if the tone of the mail is just right she'll be interested but otherwise it'll get ignored. I'm thinking that the right tone would be sort of fun and playful, not ****y exacty but just like I'm writing for fun more than cos I'm into her. If she replies to the first one then I can be a bit more flirtatious, any thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hoogie

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i think you need to someone include something about how you couldnt remember half your night... just so she knows (if u did screw up something) that you may have been drunk and therefor a tool.
 
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You don't come across as an AFC by NOT BEING AN AFC.

Stop being one and you won't look like one.
 
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