"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EMAIL 2 FEMALE-insiders secrets exposed

COD

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SUBJECT LINE:FUTURE EX-BOYFRIEND

EMAIL-----Well miss fancy pants -cute, single, and you’re not 250 lbs, where have you been all my wife………err I mean life (Freudian slip….or wishful thinking). I am seeking a sweettart….I mean sweetheart.
I just thought with all your fan mail I could cut straight to the front of the line. One would think you might appreciate a little boldness. Question is are you up for the challenge sister?

Meet me don’t delete me!!-----(CTA)

Signed, WILD WILLY


LETS CSI THIS EMAIL DOWN TO ITS ESSENTIAL (must have) parts:

SUBJECT LINE: use bold print, make it personal, inviting.

KEYWORDS-be sure to extract something from their profile and inject it into your email. In the above example I scanned her physical stats & saw she wore designer jeans with glitter & was slim.

HUMOR-goes a long way in building rapport, a purposely miss-spelled word, clever nic name or a slip of the finger trying to correct your obvious mistakes equals funny......and is attraction.

TEASE-not a blatant insult or put-down, can be difficult to do virtually.

ENTICEMENT-a bit of a challenge while being straight to the point.

CTA (call to action)-this is basically your invitation for them to email you back with some sort of contact info and to show you are slightly interested.

SIGNATURE-initials are ok but a short statement is much better!

THE RESULTS..................

I sent this out on various sites(match, POF, AFF, Myspace, facebook, E-harmony,yahoo, cupid,etc) to various women with various age ranges, 100 times

REPLIES: 92% OF them REPLIED, 78% POSITIVE (im user name, phone #'s, etc).

ACTUAL PHONE #'s-41

ACTUAL # OF WOMEN WENT ON A DATE WITH-23

# OF WOMEN HAD SEX WITH-7

TOTAL TIME TO DESIGN EMAIL,SEND OUT, RESPOND, PHONE, DATE, SEX 3-9 DAYS.
CONCLUSION:generic email templates have little success, better to tailor design and send to specific targets on specific sites. Where it is possible to log on, send out a quick email and within 1 hour be meeting a woman for sex, it is not par for the course (NO MATTER WHAT SITE YOU ARE ON) OR how enticing your email is...........just too many variables at play. Congruence, persistance, humor, have to be in place to escalate. Being too sexual too fast on any site DOES NOT REAP FAVORABLE RESULTS.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds interesting. 1st Y put Future Ex boyfriend for the subject line wats the point of that??? Wat if she says y did i put future ex boyfirned?

Also wat site is AFF? Cupid ehh i jus signed up on it n its kind of weak cuz everytime u send a message u have to answer 5 ?'s bs everytime. Takes too long. I rather jus copy n paste my messages to pof n myspace.


Also wat is ur follow up messages
 

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Future ex is the SUBJECT LINE you may choose anything really. I chose that particular one because it hints at humor and the subtext that most online dates don't realy last. Most guys say the exact same thing. When a person looks at all their emails which ones do they open........ONES THAT STAND OUT..........how do U decide which ones stand out........FROM THE subject line. ITS YOUR BAIT THAT IS GOING TO MAKE THEM NIBBLE.

You can have the funniest, coolest email ever.............but without a ENTICING SUBJECT LINE she might never see it.

YOUR EMAIL IS THE HOOK (that lies underneath the bait).......all you gotta do is reel 'em in.

IF SHE SAYS WHY DID U PUT THAT.....you just experienced success (a positive response) perfect opportunity to bust out some C & F banter. In that scenario you could say " OH I WAS IN THE THINKING IN THE FUTURE".....i AM back now, so whats up"

There are over 1500 dating sites.........almost one for every personality. Some are better than others, some have different features, differnt members. You should KNOW theres a huge difference between dating sites and social networking sites (FACEBOOK, MYSPACE, CRAIGS LIST,ETC) Thats why i tested it on a variety of sites, re-read my conclusions.


FOLLOW UP MESSAGES..............the second email is the extraction phase (its where u get some personal info---IM user name or phone number).

The secondary email is another lesson all to its own..........I'll save that for another posting.

I just wanted to test some cut n paste emails, ones that were universal to send on numerous sites. I concluded no two sites are alike and emails should reflect that. Its like finding a pickup line that works on every chic.........JUST NOT PRACTICLE. A quicker method would be have a series of openers(emails) one for specific site.

DIFFENT TYPES ON DIFFERENT SITES---------so You should have email templates for that specific site, THEN ALTER that email to make it appear personal.

WHY DO THIS--were talking mass emailing here.........to have multiple dates quickly.

Theres a complete science to meeting women online and knowing how to design templates effectively and quickly saves you time. Todays lesson was about generic templates.
 
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