"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Elstud writting Doclove?

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http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_400/466_doc-love-everyones-getting-involved.html

^^ Sounds like Elstud to me, Can approach but can't close, before I knew of the "community" I was on sites like those reading this lame crap, it's pathetic the same old monday morning quarterbacking in every article this guy says "buy my book" just like all these other guru's out there....

Remember, guys: When it comes to dating and love, don’t listen to other people -- listen to me.--Doc Love

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol Perhaps Mike is a ghost in the machine, the conglomeration of the trickles that are left over from all the PUA material on the net. He's not selling anything. but it's not like it's all that useful to anyone who's had some experience.

Nice comparison Solo.
 

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umm its the epiphany of reaching master level...........U got all the women so maybe just maybe masters write a book, teach a class, or host a show.

True masters share their success secrets...........Mystery, Style, Neil Strauss, me, and so many others, no I am not in their league but U catch my drift. When U hit your 40's its time to hang it up but having a book or DVD was cool to reflect back in the day............for nastalgia purposes.

Whats Mystery and others gonna do when they are hitting 50..........love him or hate him being a has been is much better than a never were.

There are so many books and yes its all a variation on a theme........most of it is crap but a lot of it is cool. Technology changes and it effects the way we date. From cell phones, text messages, movie/shows/pickup lines, net dating, speed dating, cool new tunes, psychological ploys and new catch phrases.

Is it all just repackaged material from yesteryear............sure some of it. The thing is "IT" needs to be updated for present day scrutenization. New concepts are difficult to put on paper to appeal to all. Like right now for instance I am writing an article on DATING WOMEN OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE AND WHAT BEHAVIORS TRIGGER THE BI TCH SHIELD.
 

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COD said:
umm its the epiphany of reaching master level...........U got all the women so maybe just maybe masters write a book, teach a class, or host a show.

True masters share their success secrets...........Mystery, Style, Neil Strauss, me, and so many others, no I am not in their league but U catch my drift. When U hit your 40's its time to hang it up but having a book or DVD was cool to reflect back in the day............for nastalgia purposes.

Whats Mystery and others gonna do when they are hitting 50..........love him or hate him being a has been is much better than a never were.

There are so many books and yes its all a variation on a theme........most of it is crap but a lot of it is cool. Technology changes and it effects the way we date. From cell phones, text messages, movie/shows/pickup lines, net dating, speed dating, cool new tunes, psychological ploys and new catch phrases.

Is it all just repackaged material from yesteryear............sure some of it. The thing is "IT" needs to be updated for present day scrutenization. New concepts are difficult to put on paper to appeal to all. Like right now for instance I am writing an article on DATING WOMEN OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE AND WHAT BEHAVIORS TRIGGER THE BI TCH SHIELD.
Lol @ Doc love being a master..

Oh god......

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whats up homie!!

Aragon034 said:
lol Perhaps Mike is a ghost in the machine, the conglomeration of the trickles that are left over from all the PUA material on the net. He's not selling anything. but it's not like it's all that useful to anyone who's had some experience.

Nice comparison Solo.

Aargon good to see you my dude!!!

where you been? how's life and women treating you these days?

It's been nuts as usual for me;)

peace
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Solomon said:
Aargon good to see you my dude!!!

where you been? how's life and women treating you these days?

It's been nuts as usual for me;)

peace
School is kicking my ass as far as time. Ever tried to memorise the chemical properties and molecular structure of 4-5 different gases and their combustion properties? Plus how to compute chemical reactions for combustion? Plus a textbook worth of construction codes that might as well be written in shakespearean english? PLUS trying to find an apprentiship? I go out maybe once every 2 weeks :|

As far as women, i've got two keeping me company, but i've got a bit of an irritating problem. Rather not talk about it on the forums. if i come online tommorow i'll PM you about it so you can laugh.
 
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