"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ElStud

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Sigh... the hate on this board. Why do you feel the need to hate on others? Know what? I don't care cause you can say anything and the truth will still be that this is what I've learned in field. You can call "creepy **** sucking loser" all you want, but in field shows different. I go up to girls and can get interest from most sets and unlike you guys, if one girl isn't interested, I can just walk away.

My point is you can call me "creepy", "loser", "virgin" "retard" and in the end the fact will be that I can still go up to girls and get interest from them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ElStud said:
My point is you can call me "creepy", "loser", "virgin" "retard" and in the end the fact will be that I can still go up to girls and get interest from them.
If you really got them interested, you would be able to get a date. Which I don't see happening.

They're just being friendly and chicks like to talk. If you can string a sentence together, and not act like a creep they'll talk to you for a bit.


You're an arrogant bastard thinking you're better than everyone here when you are clearly not. This may be one of the reasons you can't get a date, your bloated ego. Chill the f*ck out because you really have nothing to be proud of. You're definitely not better or worse than the rest.
 
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ElStud said:
Sigh... the hate on this board. Why do you feel the need to hate on others? Know what? I don't care cause you can say anything and the truth will still be that this is what I've learned in field. You can call "creepy **** sucking loser" all you want, but in field shows different. I go up to girls and can get interest from most sets and unlike you guys, if one girl isn't interested, I can just walk away.

My point is you can call me "creepy", "loser", "virgin" "retard" and in the end the fact will be that I can still go up to girls and get interest from them.

THE FIELD REPORTS SHOWS THAT YOU ARE A CREEPY LOSER

YOU DO NOT GET INTEREST, YOU GET POLITENESS THAT PEOPLE GIVE TO MENTALLY HANDICAPPED PEOPLE OUT OF NECESSITY

**** you are such a moron
 

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Alle_Gory said:
If you really got them interested, you would be able to get a date. Which I don't see happening.

They're just being friendly and chicks like to talk. If you can string a sentence together, and not act like a creep they'll talk to you for a bit.


You're an arrogant bastard thinking you're better than everyone here when you are clearly not. This may be one of the reasons you can't get a date, your bloated ego. Chill the f*ck out because you really have nothing to be proud of. You're definitely not better or worse than the rest.
Blah blah, I read your post, I don't agree with it. That's all I'm gonna say. You know what of what you said is complete BS. You know what of what you said you know nothing about. You know what words you put in my mouth that I never said. I do not have to confirm these things. And besides say whatever, I still go out in the field and I know what happens when I talk to girls. You don't, you can say you do, but you've never seen me in field. Just like if I said I honestly knew ANYTHING about you guys, I would be lying.
 

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In the end you're only fooling yourself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's funny how "Charlatan" Player has the nerve to call out Elstud yet won't post his approaches/fr's/method or anything, dude please spare us :rolleyes:

@El-stud what are you trying to gain from the game? please answer my question I'm being serious, do you just wanna approach women for the sake to approach or what? do you want a girlfriend?

Peace
 

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ElStud said:
I don't agree with it.
Whether you agree or not, doesn't concern me. I'm telling you things as I see them.

I still go out in the field and I know what happens when I talk to girls. You don't, you can say you do, but you've never seen me in field. Just like if I said I honestly knew ANYTHING about you guys, I would be lying.
I know only from what you tell me, and what I see here.

You believe we're all against you but we're not. We're trying to help you out because you don't get it. Yes, its a numbers game but if almost every single chick you meet wants nothing to do with you then the problem is not them, but you. You keep telling us about all those fake phone numbers, about how you got banned from the student center for harassing a chick, etc. That's not success. That is a failure. Ballsy, I'll give you that but a failure in the end.

The reason I rip on you is the same reason I rip on other members here like Luke Skywalker. Don't preach it if you don't know it. You're the equivalent of a homeless guy giving financial advice. Sounds pretty stupid to you, doesn't it? That's what I see in this thread.


Anyways, I got a date on Monday and I didn't need to harass 50 chicks to do so. ZING!

Enjoy giving advice on sh*t you don't understand.
 
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