"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Elbow Pain???

WaterTiger

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Recently I've had a wicked pain in my left elbow and I'm not sure what it is. It especially bothers me when I try to lift something. Like yesterday I tried to take a jar of pasta sauce off the shelf and dropped it because of the pain. It feels like there is a blade between the bone & the tendon, trying to pry it off.

Is this "Tennis Elbow"???:confused: What should I do besides ice it down and put it in an Ace bandage?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go see a doctor. Seriously, no one here is qualified to give you advice on something serious like that.

There should be a forum rule against this.
 

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Yes, see a Doc. It sounds like tennis elbow/tendonitis or something similar but it's impossible to diagnose through a computer screen. My recommendation is that you see a Doc who specializes in the area that you want to get back to.

Example:

1. If all you want to do if be able to go through everyday normal movements without pain, most likely any Orthopedic Doc would be fine.

2. If you're looking to be pain free in everyday life, AND get back to doing some physical activity (weight lifting, or some other rec. sport), I'd see an Orthopedic Doc who specializes in sports related injuries and will be able to take an approach with you that will get you back to being active PAIN FREE.

Good luck.
 
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