Eject if you hear that.

[NSX-R]

I made a post about my ex . I have some advice and i hope it helps. When you woman says the usual
“It’s not you it’s me “
“ i want to focus on myself/job/family/house / finances whatever “
“I can’t give you what you want “

She either fcks with someone else or she about to . Eject and remove any emotion even related to that woman . It’s going to remove you from a lot of pain and depression. I was lucky and karma helped me to find out everything. But i was unlucky and felt everything. I do hope all that pain to have some positive result. I hope you guys make use of this advice and learn from my mistakes .

 

[NSX-R]

Thats solid advice. Did you find out about the guy and who he is?

I met him when they were on a date together. Dude was disgusting. My Gay friend was repelled by him and try consider that he fcks every guy imaginable. Am not overreacting. He was really bad .

 

[Baibars]

I made a post about my ex . I have some advice and i hope it helps. When you woman says the usual
“It’s not you it’s me “
“ i want to focus on myself/job/family/house / finances whatever “
“I can’t give you what you want “

She either fcks with someone else or she about to . Eject and remove any emotion even related to that woman . It’s going to remove you from a lot of pain and depression. I was lucky and karma helped me to find out everything. But i was unlucky and felt everything. I do hope all that pain to have some positive result. I hope you guys make use of this advice and learn from my mistakes .

I went through that depression and all of the emotions. Couldn’t eat or sleep properly for weeks, cried a lot even in front of her. Chased for about 2 months and heard similar phrases from her. I had time to think about all of the good moments but also reflected my mistakes. It was me who dumped her and I regretted it. The whole time I was acting tough but I was attached to her.
I had my moment this Friday when I met her. She rejected being physically close to me and when we were talking in the end she said „do you want me to act like I want this?!“ something broke inside of me.

What you’re saying is true but usually when you hear these things and can’t just walk away, you’re not yourself. You’re attached and you think you can somehow fix things.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I do hope all that pain to have some positive result.

It's pain and resistance in life that makes you grow as a human/man to higher levels. Not the "easy mode" which just keeps you on the same static level - or worse - makes you go backwards in your development.

 

[NSX-R]

She did consider him a better option though, have you considered what that says about her? And you?

In my other post i described how much of a lower value that dude was . He had virtually nothing better going on for him in comparison to me . Maybe he had tattoos which i don’t. Other than that i don’t know . You’re right , it says a lot about her and i missed a big bullet there . I do believe finally this was the last interaction i ever had with that woman .

 

[holidayad_]

I made a post about my ex . I have some advice and i hope it helps. When you woman says the usual
“It’s not you it’s me “
“ i want to focus on myself/job/family/house / finances whatever “
“I can’t give you what you want “

She either fcks with someone else or she about to . Eject and remove any emotion even related to that woman . It’s going to remove you from a lot of pain and depression. I was lucky and karma helped me to find out everything. But i was unlucky and felt everything. I do hope all that pain to have some positive result. I hope you guys make use of this advice and learn from my mistakes .

I've been there too, buddy. We don't realize it at the moment, but it's a deliverance for us.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Better idea: stop dating women with the goal of finding “the one” use them till they move on, then use the next one

 

[soulforge]

One of the biggest problem is this.

You guys hold on for too long.. More often than not, the girl is proving that she isn't a worthy girlfriend, but you hold onto her for dear life, up until she finds another dude and DUMPS you.

If the relationship isn't going your way & the future doesn't look good with her.. You should be doing the walking away.