ejaculation pill or something

[DDevil]

It takes way to danm long for me to get off during sex. I had a past surgery that may have messed something up.


Is there is any kind of medicine or procedure I can use?

btw- I masterbate about 1-2 times a month so thats not it.

 

[Adone]

Does it take you a long time to get off when you masturbate? If the answer is no, then it's not a physiological problem, but it's something in your head (or in her pùssy).

 

[Chillisauce]

Are you attracted to your girlfriend? (i'm not asking is she considered hot by most people, i mean does she turn you on and so forth)

Is she attracted to you? (does she get into sex or generally act like shes reading a book?)

Those are the two things i have noticed when i had difficulty getting off, now that i'm with a girl who is REALLY into me i have the opposite problem.

 

[DDevil]

It takes me about 10-15 mins to masterbate.

I'm very attracted to her and she is very attracted to me. She gets really into it too. Also i'm very comfortable with her. This problem happend to my last GF too.


Would viagra work?

 

[Adone]

Viagra just makes you hold your erections more. Anyway, it's most likely a psychological issue, since you can get off quickly enough when you masturbate. Masturbation & Sex are, physiologically speaking, the same exact thing. The only difference there can be is if she's not tight enough, that could be the only physiological cause, otherwise it's something in your mind.

Strange thing, a couple of days ago I had sex with my girlfriend 2 times during the night. The morning after, we woke up and we did it anal for 10 minutes, then we stopped because I didn't manage to get off (I was rock hard and I was loving it, but I wasn't even close to orgasm). We washed up, she sùcked me off and I cùmmed after 5 mins or so. Then, we did it again (vaginally), and I lasted 20+ mins.

 

[DDevil]

Lucky

 

[DDevil]

I know! How about I get a jar of a bunch of mosquitoes , put my junk in it. Then it would feel so danm good to itch them and I will never have this problem again!


EDIT: Has anyone ever tried that? That would drive you crazy.

 

[Desdinova]

The only thing I've heard of is a pill that will make you blow your load across the room. Never looked into it though.

Try different positions. I find that has an effect on how quickly I blow.

 

[reyalp]

missionary is the quickest to make you blow, in general. you're having to do more work and you're tensing your glutes a lot.
in fact, when getting oral from a girl, i have difficulty achieving orgasm while relaxed. my solution is to squeeze my glutes (which sympathetically squeezes my PC muscle), and that makes the orgasm happen fast. otherwise, she could blow for an hour and i'd still be waiting on the orgasm.

also, a technique i have for lasting longer is to breathe deeper. try the opposite. breathe shallow and fast.

hopefully, these three tips can help you out.

 

[Hot Ice]

How much is long for you?

I'm also pretty slow. Sometimes I don't get it at all.
1 hour is good for me and 2 is little bit too long.
In my experience women usually start feeling sore after 1,5 hours.

I've noticed that there are several factors makes you orgasm.
Such as speed, rhytm, thightness, positions, state of tensation/relaxation, stress, consuming of food, water or alcohol, environment etc.

IMO sex shouldn't be over in 20 minutes, it's good if you last an hour.
I wouldn't trade having an ability to last really long to be a 10 minute rocket!
I've had few times that I've enjoyed really much even I didn't orgasm at all.

Few thoughts:
- Start slow. Concentrate on how good you feel. Enjoy the moment.
- Don't try to make goals about sex like you should come in 10 minutes. It just makes you frutrated
- Keep the rhytm stimulating, but again don't hump like a Duracell bunny in the start, it just makes it harder to orgasm as your **** goes numb.
- Maybe the girl is too loose. Postition is the key here and the angle your penis goes in. Find positions and angles that makes her vagina more tight.
- when you masturbate, try not to do it too hard pressure-wise, vagina ain't gonna grab your penis as hard as your hand can.
- Think about all the details about your partner that turn you on like scent, softness, tits, ass, whatever.
- Try exercising before sex. Right after workout your stress is gone and testosterone is up!
- Try having a few day break of sex and masturbation.
- Eat healthy and stay hydrated. Exercise! Get more testosterone!
- Don't schedule sex. Have plenty of time in private, relaxing place that's locked from rest of the world so you don't have to worry about somebody busting in or that you should do this or that in 1 hour.
- Have her giving you a little bit or oral or/and handjob for you to make you little more sensitive.
- When you feel that you are close to orgasm, switch the position, angle and phase that you find most stimulating and keep doing it while concentrating how good you feel.
- Leave your daily life and problems out of bedroom. Only sexual thoughts.
- Don't try to MAKE orgasm happen! Just LET it happen. It's a lot like trying to get sleep, the harder you try, the harder it becomes.

 

[DDevil]

Thanks for all the info. It helped.


Kinda random but are male multiple orgasims rare?