"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ego

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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great. and true ego come sin all forms. like attractive people seeking validation for thier looks when they dont get attention they feel sad. i worked on my body and expected every girl to look at me. if they didnt id feel sad. i think ego. is bad. but pride is good. but too much pride isnt good for a man too. get rid of your ego and you'll be happier. im just starting to get happy knowing not every girl has to look at me. i cant get every girl. ill live my life.
 
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Very good find.

I am moving houses in a month. To a new house i get my own little place not connected to the house. So I was thinking I got so many possessions what would I be when I throw everything away. Envision myself sitting in the ground in my room with nothing but myself there.

Who am I? It is like the Fight Club motto. When you have lost everything your free to do anything. Thus I am going to get rid of a lot of my crap I dont need. I know it will lift weight off me as dumb as it sounds.

Also another problem I have with the ego is I believe I am good looking.. So when I have an oppurtunity to approach I feel that if I am rejected it creates doubt. So I try to avoid it. Even though since finding this site I am 1/1 in number closing and hook up.

So I haven't really tried hard enough. I think like what the article said the ego is what we believe to be us. So by ditcing the materialistic things we are only left with ourselves.....
 
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good read.
 
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