Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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EFT for Inner Game (AA, Etc)

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Sup!? So I just came across this website...

www.innergametapping.com

Its about using EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) for inner-game issues.
Approach Anxiety, Confidence, and any emotional issues hindering your game.

A few of you might know the guy Magnus.
He's been around the community.

Anyways... I've heard great things about EFT, as far as its success as a transformative technigue. Thought it pretty interesting that this guy is using it for innergame, specifically in regards to "GAME." There is a free video to check it out (and follow along to try).

Anyways... just thought I'd bring this to light, if anyone hear wanted to check it out.
Might be an actual technique some could employ for their innergame issues.

Would like to hear from anyone who has used EFT for any other issues.

Peace'
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everywomanshero

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Dark: no offense to you, I also investigated EFT once and here's what I found, maybe this will help:


This is what kills me about 'the community' guys, they laugh at chicks for being into stuff like palm reading which has not been scientifically validated, then they believe in stuff like EFT which is also not scientifically validated. There are a whole bunch of spins off TFT including EFT by Craig.

Here's a short quote from (http://www.quackwatch.org/01QuackeryRelatedTopics/mentserv.html):

"Critics have noted that TFT's underlying theories clash with established scientific knowledge and that studies alleging benefit have been poorly designed [34-37]. In 1999, the Arizona Board of Psychologist Examiners reprimanded a psychologist for using TFT and voice technology in his psychology practice [38] and the American Psychological Association's Continuing Education Committee notified CE providers that TFT courses will no longer be approved for continuing education credits [39]. For further information, visit Debunking Thought Field Therapy."
 

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I have a friend that believes in it. He was supposed to lend me the videos. It was designed by a Stanford engineer (not that means he's ethical, credible or whatever, but it might)
 

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everywomanshero said:
Dark: no offense to you, I also investigated EFT once and here's what I found, maybe this will help:
None taken.

I've just heard a lot of success stories in regards to EFT.
Haven't tried it myself... but some of the theories I've read, in the mechanics of it, seemed plausible. So along w. that, and the success stories... thought it still valuable to post. Especially with the focus of "GAME."

I'm all for techniques in transformation.
I've been practicing meditation for years now.
And thats led many pursuits, into various fields.
Some have been beneficial... others futile.
But still... have contributed to greater understanding.
So...........

in that line of optimistic practicality.
Check it all out, see what ya think.

Peace'
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EFT is no joke. it works. I am getting better each and every day. That magnus video is pure gold.
 

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Are you serious...
It is a Placebo ........................................ dot dot dot...

Quoting urbandictionary.com
Placebo
"1: An ineffective substance that is given to someone who thinks it will have a physical effect on them."


But if you truly believe this technique will work, then it truly will.

Placebos are a such a HUGE factor that when a new medicine is being tested, 50% of the patients are given a placebo, in most cases a sugar pill...

Although if you can think about approaching a girl and feel some type of anxiety then that will help to desensitize your self to it.

Edit*
Found a good read on Placebos...
http://skepdic.com/placebo.html
 
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