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Sir_Chancealot

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Ok guys,

A while back, I posted about running the "friends into lovers" pattern on a chick that I had known for a while, but hadn't asked out. (I couldn't find that specific post to update it.) She stopped me mid-pattern and basically said that she was exclusively involved with someone. I then ran a couple of "boyfriend destroyer" patterns on her. This was the weekend before Thanksgiving. She breaks up with him a few days later.

Now, I ran into her on Saturday. We chatted for a bit. Later that night, I'm picking up a pizza at my brother's restaurant. She calls my cell phone and asks what I am doing. Long story short, she asks if I want to meet her there. I said that since I am already there, I can wait there for a couple of minutes. (Had I **NOT** already been there, I would have been "too busy" to go.)

So, another long story short, we end up taking my son, her two kids, and my nephew (who hangs around with her kids) to play laser tag, and go bowling. She mentioned that the kids wanted to go, I suggested we go right then. (If nothing else, I'm getting good at seizing the moment!
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While there, she paid for most of the games, AND more than half of my beers. We only played two games, while the kids rolled 5 or 6 games. (Got to see my 6 year old get his first strike and his first spare!
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Ok, so I don't really consider it a "date" as such. Don't really know what she considers it (nor do I care). Haven't decided if I want to LJBF her or not. I think I will try to arrange an actual date, and see how it goes.

During the evening out (we stayed out until 1:00 a.m.), I did NOT do any of the stuff I would usually do, because her kids were there. Now, while I don't mind MY son seeing me hit on women, I don't think her sons should be privy to seeing a guy hit on their mom. I did the usual 70/30 conversation, and she mentioned several times that I hadn't really told her anything about myself. (Mystery. You gotta love it!
) But I digress....

So, the question is: Do you think the patterns were effective, or do you think that she is a "monkey-brancher"? I'm gonna rule out coincidence, because there have been just a few too many of them since I took up SS.


Now for the plan (and your guys' critique of it.)

Ok, now I know she ISN'T going to have the kids next weekend, so I have the feeling that I should set something up for then. (Yes, I know the rules are no weekend dates at first, but there are some exceptions) I plan on going out and playing some pool, (MAYBE some dancing). If I can arrange it, I will try out the blammo pattern, and I will elicit a few values, and see if I can run some "freestyle" patterns based on that.

What do you guys think?
 

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I think its great. Are you gonna get serious with her???

Did you run my destroyer pattern???

BTW: Its against the law to have sex while the kids are around. You can get up to 2 years for corrupting children.
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Originally posted by Vronski:
I think its great. Are you gonna get serious with her???

No, I have two chicks I'm running boyfriend destroyer patterns on. The one you're thinking of would be the OTHER one. And HELL NO, I wouldn't get serious with her. She's a Low self-esteem girl.

It is WAY WAY WAY too early to say ANYTHING about getting "serious" with her. I haven't even set up the second date yet!
LOL!

Did you run my destroyer pattern???
Didn't have a chance to, that pattern was for the other girl, the one I took to the Riverboat casino. The girl I'm referring to was like the third chick I ran patterns on.
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BTW: Its against the law to have sex while the kids are around. You can get up to 2 years for corrupting children.
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I think you misunderstood what I said!


I was talking about doing kino, patterns, sexual jokes, etc., around her when her kids are around, not having sex with her. Did you expect me to bang her right in the bowling alley on the ball rack?!?


I meant that it would be ok for my son to see me talking with her, applying kino, those kinds of things. I don't think it would be good for HER sons to see that. They should learn that from THEIR father.
 

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Originally posted by Sir_Chancealot:
I meant that it would be ok for my son to see me talking with her, applying kino, those kinds of things. I don't think it would be good for HER sons to see that. They should learn that from THEIR father.

dammit! how come my daddy never teaches me things like these?!

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No, I have two chicks I'm running boyfriend destroyer patterns on
Dude!!!! WTF??? You should stop doing that.

Use boyfriend destroyer ONLY if you want to be serious with the girl. Come on, you know the stuff works, dont screw people's lives. Her BF was probably quite good and now she lost him and the guy is hurt. Are you sadistic or something??

NLP works, but you can do too much damage with it up to breaking up a family and ruining people's lives. Imagine, when you were still AFC, you girlfriend comes home reprogrammed by some ass and dumps you for nothing. Feels bad, isn't it??? Well you just did that to her bf and you dont even know if you're gonna screw her. People can be hurt and become really depressed.

Use boyfriend destroyer ONLY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO NAIL HER. Dont play around with this stuff.

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At this point, I have no indication that it was the pattern that did it, ESPECIALLY considering the fact that the pattern was so short. I have a tendency to think that this woman is a "monkey-brancher" (you know, won't let go of one b/f unless she has a chance at another), rather than the success of the pattern.

I'll know soon enough.

You are reading too much into my posts. I ***WAS*** planning on nailing her, but when we "went out" (such as it was) I kind of got the wrong vibe. I'll find out more, and keep you guys updated on this.

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My papa new a few tricks, but holy ****! Chance's kid is gonna be amazing!

Anyways, when she mentioned her exclusive relationship how did you make the transition from that 1/2 a pattern to the BF destroyer patterns?

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