"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

Julian

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i will not make time for dating this time of year

brb 12 hours on the phone plus txts. remove your head from your ass who put you in charge of 3 kids?! fkin ay
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marvinlfloresq

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So ya, I probably could have. She offered to come over tonight but she would’ve had to ditch her kid and her kid is gone all weekend and so are mine and I work tomorrow early. But she was actually willing to do that.

For me it is the time thing. Haven’t even met. Who talks for that long?

We are meeting up tomorrow night. Wants to come over...lol
Women talk 80 words in an hour, I think. I cant remember, its in that book, understanding relationships by coach corey. Thrust me, women love to talk. Men just do stuff.
 
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