"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eff My Life - Looking for a little GUIDANCE

Julian

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i will not make time for dating this time of year

brb 12 hours on the phone plus txts. remove your head from your ass who put you in charge of 3 kids?! fkin ay
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marvinlfloresq

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So ya, I probably could have. She offered to come over tonight but she would’ve had to ditch her kid and her kid is gone all weekend and so are mine and I work tomorrow early. But she was actually willing to do that.

For me it is the time thing. Haven’t even met. Who talks for that long?

We are meeting up tomorrow night. Wants to come over...lol
Women talk 80 words in an hour, I think. I cant remember, its in that book, understanding relationships by coach corey. Thrust me, women love to talk. Men just do stuff.
 
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