“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Educational": My brief encounter with a bipolar ADHD alcoholic

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This has all happened in the span of a couple of weeks. I will recall only the "important" points (because I don't remember a lot of word-for-word details nor the exact order every detail happened). I post this so guys who have yet to meet one of these girls can see how f*cked up they are.

Day 1: I was on a dating site and saw this girl who I thought looked funny and pretty hot. I checked her out and the rest of her pictures were really hot. I checked her number of profile views, and as usual it was in the region of 100-200 a day. I decided to write to her just to see if it was even possible to talk to a girl who gets so much attention, as I also happened to be discussing that subject with a friend right then. So I tell her "I think I'm gonna marry you, see you next week for the wedding", to my surprise she actually responds and does so positively (albeit in the usual zero-substance way of girls online) and I decide to keep the conversation going to see how far I can get this going. I ask her if she's met anyone from online and she says no one, which sends a red flag up in the sky as this means she is either lying or despite the hundreds of messages she likely gets, she (like other women who use online dating) still hasn't met/kept anyone, for some reason.

Eventually she wants to add me on snapchat and kik, wants to see my private pictures on the site and then wants to see more. The first thing she sends me on kik is a picture of her looking like she's cried and touching a vodka bottle with her lips, and she says "I'm a lot of drama just so you know".

Day 2: At night she asks if she can call me "from her home phone". She calls me with a secret number, it's obviously her cell phone. She almost in passing says that she's bipolar and has ADHD. She for some reason tells me that she had been on a night bus home and there was only one other guy in there, it turned out he lived where she does and she went home to him and then a bunch of guys and his dad were there and now she has his sweater and she doesn't intend to give it back, *giggle*. A trend of calling me "mean" starts (whenever I say something that has its roots in game).

Some other day: She calls me again and keeps talking about her life in short sentences that she usually ends with giggling. For example she's quit school because of "so much **** that has happened" and she goes to some kind of therapy. By this time I've learned that she's basically an alcoholic. At some point around here I think it was, she tells me that she's going to go away over the weekend with her friend who is 2 years older and "is like her" to smoke and drink to "feel better". After the call we keep talking a little. I think it was this time that she apologised "if she's been acting sh!tty to you", but not sure - the important point for me and you to notice being that she hadn't been acting sh!tty so far at all. I tell her I have to sleep and she says something like "yes abandon me..".

Some other day: She asks when we're going to meet, then calls me 10 minutes later as I haven't responded yet. At the time I'm out with a plate who leaves without saying anything when I pick up which I don't notice at first :crackup: She starts talking as usual, then gets to the subject. I say we can meet tomorrow or it has to wait until next week. As I'm making plans for tomorrow with her she keeps interjecting little objections like "I don't like being out among people", and I can sense the hesitation when I ask her for answers. My suggestion was to go disco bowling and drink a little. Eventually we lay on and she tells me to talk to her when I get home. I do so, but she doesn't respond. I ask her if something has gone wrong with a kiss smiley, go to bed and either a little later or in the morning she says "everything is wrong". That "sh!t has/is wrong" is a running theme when talking with her. I tell her about our plans this evening, but she doesn't respond.

The weekend: She's with her friend and calls me after I start talking to her. Some day earlier than this she already said she doesn't want a fvckbuddy and wants a relationship so she would "feel better". This time she tests me about relationship stuff. She keeps testing me, asking stuff like "are you in love with me?" in a way that didn't sound as clear/serious as typing it here makes it out to be. She says she's said so and I have to say "the same thing back" - so I say "okay... you're really boring but I love you anyway" (because she said I was "unbelievably boring" when I turned her sh!t back on her earlier by giving her "the year's b!tch" award). I told her earlier when she was talking about similar things that it's hard for me to be infatuated with someone I haven't met yet, but maybe it's not the same for her. The whole time, she would not say anything about what her position was - all she did was ask me and talk about my answers. It felt like a very blatant fish for validation.

Then she asks me what I think of her looks. I, knowing she has probably hundreds of orbiters from her 1100-followers instagram and not wanting to become another according to the game principles we learn, tell her "she looks good" with a certain tone to come across as not really caring, and she says to her friend that she keeps talking to inbetween that she's not used to hearing that and goes on about how that doesn't sound like I think she looks good. During this conversation she brought up how I can finger her pvssy as I was explaining something that she wasn't getting, and I just said "well... all right I guess, if that helps you understand". What I was explaining to her was how living off empty validation was no good.

Some other days: I try to meet with her again but she flakes again, she has to "see if she can" because she won't be home that night. Later on she makes a snapchat update saying that who wants to see her tonight can kik her. Her initiatives on snapchat and kik ground to a halt and she is no longer calling me. However, she does keep talking to me. She sends me your typical attention wh0re picture with a drawed-on nose and says some "life as a nose lover" crap, then the next day she sends me another such picture and says "my new silicones". I say I don't believe her and it's just pushup, she starts talking about tit sizes and how she has a size E and that it's really big. We talk some more bullsh!t about @sses, until she suddenly asks me what I work with. I joke around, then tell her what I do, and she responds by saying that's great and that what she herself does is "sleep a lot".

She recalls that I told her I was "dirty" earlier during a phone call, and says "if you're so dirty then tell something". I say "it comes spontaneously" and she says "not a real dirty then". Then she wants more pictures of me. On her instagram, she has a picture saying "I just want someone real nasty and loyal" - these things imply she's pretty sexual.

Time goes. I tell her a joke that I'm going to turn crazy soon, and before I can finish by saying that it's because I need to see her she says "I already am" :crackup: but then I do tell her. In response she laughs and says "I must just have alcohol". Then she says "I'm gonna get a job just to afford alcohol every day, do you understand how bad that is, I drink like two vodkas a day". So I say I don't think it's such a good idea to buy wine for us then, and she says no that's what she needs, she's going out drinking and she mentions chocolate for who knows why and says "don't need chocolate need strong liquor". I see a sexual opportunity, so I say "just get both, chocolate gives better sex too". She says "jesus, sex isn't something I think about". It goes on and she tells me "I'll never have sex again so it's cool". She says "all guys are so disgusting so why should you", "haha it's all you think about too I notice". I tell her if that was the case I would've already moved on to another girl, and she says "moved on? we're just friends". I say "of course we're friends, what else would we be?". We say some more stuff, but that's how it ends.



This girl started by wanting to see more and more pictures of me, telling me to finger her pvssy and giggling, ambiguously saying she went home with some guy at night and kept his sweater, asking when we were going to meet, asking me to say dirty things, sending me attention wh0re pictures and asking what I think of her looks, talking about how she wants to be in a relationship. She ended up suddenly saying we were just friends just as a reaction to something small I said, flaking by not responding every time and saying she doesn't think about sex and she's never going to have sex again forever.

These women are mentally SICK. They are NOT right in the head. Do not blame yourself for what happens with them, and be skeptical of girls who use online dating - ESPECIALLY if they are active on social media, the more the worse. My only regret is clicking on her profile at all to begin with, because it's going to be very hard to top her looks.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you are a bit fvcked up mentally like her then you can get involved. Otherwise steer clear.
 

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She called you unbelievably boring. Did you call her a mentally retarded BPD alcoholic?
 

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I've talked about her alcoholic tendencies and been a little unintentionally snarky about it at times :p

She changes her profile picture on kik probably every day. It's a variation of an attention wh0re pose every time. I haven't even met her but she's already f*cked my mind more than any other girl I've known. Now I'm on no contact - not that I think she's going to contact me. She probably has dozens of new orbiters every day.
 
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