"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Edmonton and surrounding area

fyzix

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I need a wingman. Anyone between 18 and 25 would be perfect.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deathfyre

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18 and living near the colisseum, where you at?
 

fyzix

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20 in St. Albert, but I'm currently too busy to go clubbing. I'll get back to you at a later date.
 

Deathfyre

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cool, email me when you've got some time to go clubbing, and hope I'm not too busy around then, hehe
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Omerta

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Bump from the dead... I moved here recently for work and the ole work and couples social circles are not cutting er for wingmen. Shoot me a PM if your around the city.
 

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Omerta said:
Bump from the dead... I moved here recently for work and the ole work and couples social circles are not cutting er for wingmen. Shoot me a PM if your around the city.
Hey how is it going? I would be leaving Halifax soon, and moving to Alberta. What's your take on 'wingman-ship' in Edmonton?
 
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