"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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****ed up? I think so...

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ok so i met this chick about 12 months ago we made out a few times, when she was on and off between her boyfriend of like 3 years, but i only ever saw her like once every 5 months or something.

Havn't seen much of her since the end september because i went back to uni, but we've kept in contact a little bit, and i saw her new years eve for a while

Any way i started talking with her again about a week and half ago, shes broken up with her boyfriend about a month ago, she was telling me she was bored,

I see her out in a club on friday night, and I started making out with her on the dance floor.

Saturday night comes I go out and get wrecked I mean ****ing all over the place, i lost about 7 hours, that night I can't remember anything, but when I get home I give her a drunken phone call. Big mistake.

Taking to her today, she started saying

"you used to be really mysterious and not tell me anything, but since we started talking again you seem to tell me alot and go into detail"

Then she told me about the phone call i gave her on saturday, which I cant remember ahah. So yeh I think i've ****ed up.

My question is do you think i should even bother asking her out?

I mean she just split up with her boyfriend who she was with for 3 years on and off, and I'm, pretty sure I ****ed up, with the whole drunken call thing, but my friends and her friends have told me she 'fancies' me, My gut tells me i've ****ed up though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You can still seduce her. Who cares if you gave up the mystery of a few things. You can re-create the image that there is still plenty of mystery. Also, if you can make her feel good, she'll want to be around you. So figure out how to get her feeling good about seeing you!
 
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ok thanks for reply ill bare it in mind.

Its not as if its just this 1 chick i've been chasing for over a year though, I've dated and screwed 3 or 4 chicks over the past year quite abit. It aint no oneitis either, we just have a good laugh together, so was thinking about asking her out. I've just been out of trying to get into this mindset, since i've been dating, going to try and do it over again.
 
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onyx said:
ok thanks for reply ill bare it in mind.

Its not as if its just this 1 chick i've been chasing for over a year though, I've dated and screwed 3 or 4 chicks over the past year quite abit. It aint no oneitis either, we just have a good laugh together, so was thinking about asking her out. I've just been out of trying to get into this mindset, since i've been dating, going to try and do it over again.
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She doesn't sound dateable. I hope you're just looking for a ONS. Sounds like that's all she's good for.
 
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