"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eckhart Tolle

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well a few people keep stressing why is it so important to call everything energy..because when you break everything down and look past the atoms and electrons and subatomic particles you find vibrations inside. WHoo boy I wish I was more eloquent with my words. (I'm sure most of you know this already.)

Apparently in our physical world, things we can touch operates at a lower frequency of vibration. Sound vibrates much faster than physical and light vibrates hundreds of times more faster than either of the former. Then the energy or "vibration" of thought is higher than all of those..It's called "etheric energy". Vibrations in the physical have been discovered already. I think that's the energy they're talking about.


To the people who want to try and "debunk" this thread because of their own hang ups; You'd be better off just taking a jog around the block. It'll do you more good. Trust me! ^_~
 

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Good post Thunder. Hadn't heard the term "etheric energy" before.
 

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Thanks, but like I said; I wish I knew more. XD

Wayne Dyer and Deepak Chopra talk about it from time to time.

Very VERY interesting stuff! You should look into it.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Yea I thought you grew out of that phase a few weeks back?

Old thread. Sorry for my tone that night, guys. Bad mood. No excuse.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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alright I'll start talking to you again.
 
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As humans, we give off energy.

This is why certain people have a certain "presence" when they walk into a room.

It's why experienced sales people can "sniff out" someone who is going to be open to something or not.

You ever approach somebody and kinda get a "gut instinct" on how they are going to react to you?

That's what tolle is saying.

It's not new age BS. It something sucessful people tap into. Females are especially good at it.
 

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Tolle is recycling all the hippy drippy stuff from the 60's and 70's . The" Power Of Now" is just New Age BS re-packaged with the commas in different places - Same ole' Zen style philospophy and just as boring as it was the first time I heard it. I am old enough to remember this stuff from the 70's . It is mostly fanciful nonsense and it re-emerges to suck in the gullible every decade or so. It just comes alomg in new wrapping.

This is the 'New Astrology' , guys.
Women love this this stuff . It is just emotional chocolate.
 

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jophil28 said:
Tolle is recycling all the hippy drippy stuff from the 60's and 70's . The" Power Of Now" is just New Age BS re-packaged with the commas in different places - Same ole' Zen style philospophy and just as boring as it was the first time I heard it. I am old enough to remember this stuff from the 70's . It is mostly fanciful nonsense and it re-emerges to suck in the gullible every decade or so. It just comes alomg in new wrapping.

This is the 'New Astrology' , guys.
Women love this this stuff . It is just emotional chocolate.
I agree, but I really am sorry I was such an assh*le about it before.
 

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jophil28 said:
Tolle is recycling all the hippy drippy stuff from the 60's and 70's . The" Power Of Now" is just New Age BS re-packaged with the commas in different places - Same ole' Zen style philospophy and just as boring as it was the first time I heard it. I am old enough to remember this stuff from the 70's . It is mostly fanciful nonsense and it re-emerges to suck in the gullible every decade or so. It just comes alomg in new wrapping.

This is the 'New Astrology' , guys.
Women love this this stuff . It is just emotional chocolate.
I disagree. I'm just as cautious about believing anything but irrationally disregarding anything one doesn't understand is narrowminded. Not everything we can't touch or see is chick candy brother.

JoPhil, I'm a big fan of your posts and surprised at your tone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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aliasguy said:
I agree, but I really am sorry I was such an assh*le about it before.
You should you rat bastard :crazy: !

I'm just glad you're done with those damned annoying breaks in your posts.

Cheers brother!
 

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TurboOverCubicInches said:
As humans, we give off energy.

This is why certain people have a certain "presence" when they walk into a room.
Nonsense-

Energy is a scientific term . It can be defined ,quantified and measured . In its radiant form it can be observed and identified by testing or measuring devices.

A person's "presence" is a psychological phenomenon NOT a scientiful truth.

You are confused about the definition of radiation.
 

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Commander Interceptor,

I bought a copy of this for me and Brother Able and I have to say this is some pretty insightful stuff. It's a different perspective of how the body/mind correlate to happiness or weariness/sickness.

Though I wouldn't categorize Eckhart Tolle as a mystic he certainly believes in what he's experienced and it is that belief which builds his character and makes him a better person in the world.
Absolutely.
The basic concepts are not inherently 'religious' or overly Spiritual.

They are Life Essentials and Principle to a proper mature perspective.

That's why it is so helpful and practical.

I deeply advocate furthering one's knowledge in Taoism related subjects.

Harmony and Balance, and proper perspecive.

Living well, living healthy, and being 'wealthy and wise'.

Essential.



I'm glad you found something of help.

I really enjoy discussion on these topics, and other things like Yoga, Karma , Tantra, Polarity, Chakras, Kundalini energy, all that good stuff.
 
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