"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ebook on improving voice quality

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i found this great little ebook (about 40k). it has tons of posture, breathing, and voice exercises to improve how your voice sounds. i tried several of them and already noticed a huge difference.
everyone should check this out, especially if you think you sound wimpy and unsure of yourself.

heres the link:

http://www.angelfire.com/hi5/nyc11219/Speaking_Skill_Handbook.pdf
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I do sound wimpy.....



....but this isn't exactly working. I have no idea what they're saying. They aren't articulating enough.

POSTURE STRETCHES
#1 and #3 make no sense what so ever.
 

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the ppl who made that ebook have a web site called essential-skills.com
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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