"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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EbOnIcZ Be Ko0L?!?

AC/DC

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Hey guys, please, can we all be literate here? Being in high school dictates that you know how to read and write, so can we all act like young adults and communicate that way?

The "your" and "you're" isn't a big deal.

"LOL ya I am totally sux at this" is obnoxious but we'll live.

THIS IS NOT ACCEPTABLE:
Originally posted by some idiot:
i didn't mean fcuken flashing money like that idiots. don't flash it in his face obviously. jus ffcuken treat sum gay ass guys to food then they would owe u a fcuken favour.

those fcuken advice is wut i think n wut i've gone thru. i don't care wut u guys think. post up ur own damn advice if u idiots got sumthing better n it fcuken doesn't matter how many fcuken post u got it's how much experience u have in ur damn life i don't care if u haave a million but u have no skillz ur post r prob. damn questions asking for advice
Because of the nature of this board, we tolerate special people like the guy above who just don't get it. We also put up with repetitive questions. But if you're goin to ask a repetitive question, or give your own two cents, or even flame somebody, can we please keep it productive, civil, and LEGIBLE?

Oakraiderz2, I know you'll be like the 1st one to reply to this.. hahaha

Thanks guys, let's make it happen!
Luv, AC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheManlyMan

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if you speak in ebonics thats great... thats good for your grammatically challenged self; really I'm happy for you. Keep that **** off the internet.

its not a racist thing. My cousin is black and we're like brothers, but there is a place for ebonics and it isn't this message board.
 

October

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While we're at it...

Stop creating meaningless arguments, and stop trying to prove yourself on a ****ing internet forum. I understand that we all think we're the hottest **** on the forum...that's what we want to think, anyway. But if you haven't noticed...NO ONE GIVES A **** :).

Let go of your ego...or at least be aware of it. In the words of BBB...

We're human beings, never settling for the middle ground.
We always have to go to the extreme. We always have to believe that we found something solid, concrete and undeniable...

We climb the highest mountains just to get there, look at the landscape for a while, see nothing but cloud and other mountains far away... so we feel lonely and eventually start going back down...

And when you're actually down, you'll keep climbing other mountains, until the time you realize that thousand feet or the ground are the same...

You have to try and become the "owner of truth", to have all your perceptions washed away by the reality of the universe, and finally realize that you have to let go, and realize that there are no truths... you've been lying to yourself all along, but your own lies are more believable than the other's.
Ego check here.

By making one generalization, you're proving that you're still subject to ego, so you lose your credibility. Now, this sentence is a generalization, so it's probably not true either, but it's all about not expecting any clear answers at all. Just rolling along with what the world feeds to you.

There's no absolute truth, and this is an absolute truth. But, believe it or not, it isn't contradicting, but complementary.

Stop seeing the polarities, the differences on the world as good and bad or right or wrong, because it's all flawed perceptions that YOU give to the things you see.

Darkness and light, sun and moon, fire and water, male and female. They all compliment each other.
Show me a world without evil, and I'll show you a world without goodness.
Arise above the mediocre. We already have billions of people only worried about getting lady and getting more money, we don't need any more of that.
Thanks guys...let's get this place back in shape.

Love, October
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC


Oakraiderz2, I know you'll be like the 1st one to reply to this.. hahaha

Thanks guys, let's make it happen!
Luv, AC
Haha, almost...3rd is close. Anyway, yea, fvck dumbasses who do that sh*t. When i normally type it takes me some time to actually type the correct way. Now if i wanted to speek idiot, imagine how much thinking i would have to do to spell incorrectly to put on a fasade of being "hardcore" or a " tru thuggin negro", imagine it...Ive never understood why people cant simply type the way words are actually spelled. This "ebonics" nonsense is pure wish wash. Why the hell would i want to sit here and take more time to spell incorrectly just so i can be cool or something to that nature. :kick:


Stop creating meaningless arguments, and stop trying to prove yourself on a ****ing internet forum. I understand that we all think we're the hottest **** on the forum...that's what we want to think, anyway. But if you haven't noticed...NO ONE GIVES A **** .
Ok mr mature man. You cant sit up here and tell me that this....aye tink dat aye iz gona go down to da mall n tri n by meh sum chikin n holla walla alla at dem hoez fo sho cuz. If you dont think thats retarded please hit yourself once for me real quick. So ill wrap it all up, speekin like wetard on da net is fvckin stupid. I hope all that do live a life of poverty for trying to display their hardcore uneducated nature...

Love,
Your sexy loveable oakraiderz...
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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October

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Sorry if I was unclear, I wasn't bashing AC in ANY way and I completely agree with him. Just wanted to add to what he said :).
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by October
Sorry if I was unclear, I wasn't bashing AC in ANY way and I completely agree with him. Just wanted to add to what he said :).
In that case disregard what i said in this and the other post...we coo...FO SHO!! haha
 
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