"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eating habits/protien shakes

Shapoopie

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I got 2 different things I need adressed by you guys.

1) I try to eat healthy, but I still eat too much sweets. *I AM NOT OVERWEIGHT* I'm 16 and about 115 lbs. But, I need to stop eating unhealthy. How can I stop overeating sweets?

2) What's a protien shake for? See, I want to gain muscle mass and develop a more full six-pack. I wanted to know ways to do that. I read the bulking and cutting guides, but those don't seem to be what I'm looking for.

Thanks guys,
Shapoopie
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1. If you eat 6 smaller meals a day that are nutritional (lean meat, chicken, fish, fruit, vegetables, nuts, oats, basmati rice, eggs etc) you will not get hungry. It may take a week or so to adjust to it, but once you have you will not crave junk food.

2. Protein shakes are more for convenience than a sole source of nutrition. I only have one when I wake up and right after I finish training. At these times your body needs protein that will be absorbed straight away. But aside from that the rest of your protein sources should come from real food.

As for your six-pack, how visible your abs are, are determined by how much bodyfat you have. Obviously as you get bigger they will also get bigger, but abs are very hard to train for hypertrophy, hence why it is more of a bodyfat issue than amount of muscle mass.
 

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like, what would an example diet that wouldn't be a challenge to obtain, would be? (sounds weird, think good meal set for highschool student)
 

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Shapoopie said:
like, what would an example diet that wouldn't be a challenge to obtain, would be? (sounds weird, think good meal set for highschool student)
Since you are a high school student, eating 5-6 meals is a lot more difficult. I suggest 4.

Get a decent breakfast. Learn to cook oatmeal and eggs. It's brutally easy and quick. Both of which are dirt cheap. When you eat eggs, eat them in egg white form or have at most one full egg with a yolk (ex. 3 egg white, 1 full egg OR 4 egg white). Throw in minor bits of pepper and salt for taste. As for oatmeal you gauge how much you can take, you can use some brown sugar, probably one spoon per serving. Avoid white sugar at all costs, that crap actually takes some nutrients out of your body to get absorbed. You can throw in fruit slices to spruce up the taste. Remember AVOID INSTANT OATMEAL AT ALL COSTS.

As for school lunches, make sandwiches. Whole wheat bread, chicken breast or tuna in the middle, and whatever dark green veggies and tomatoes. So that the bread doesn't get soggy, I suggest you keep one container for vegetable and meat and another for the bread. Throw some yogurt, fruits and nuts on the side.

As an alternative to a sandwich you do stir fry with meat, veggies and brown/wild rice. If the school as a microwave, you can reheat it.

As for post school meal and dinner do some surfing for it. You have a lot more time to prepare for this. Don't worry about protein bars at this stage, use that money you want to spend on it on better meals and food instead.

Yea I forgot to mention; how often do you lift weights? Do you know how to lift properly?
 

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I do not know anything about lifting weights. I am taking a conditioning class next year and want to take weight training, but I am, quite bluntly, embarrassed to be doing that for the first time when im 18. I would much rather get a trainer and do it at the gym
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hehe, I thought he was a skinny girl at first. KillaPete, drill him good.

Food, mass, bulk, burn, build. Repeat for three months. Than come back and complain about being overweight.
 

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find replacements for unhealthy foods

i.e:

ice cream -- non fat frozen yogurt
french fries -- potatoes
candy -- strawberries, bananas, pineapple,
chocolate -- if you're gonna go insane if you don't eat chocolate then get it in a protein bar or shake so you at least get something good out of it
 

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yeah dude, seriously, don't worry about anything.. .just eat. Then eat some more.

In fact, all this talk of eating is making me hungry. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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