"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eating before going to bed

Matlm

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Hey, I take sleeping pills before going to bed and they make me really hungry.

I am trying to burn the small amount of fat I have on my stomache, so I can have a six pack.

Will eating before I go to bed greatly hinder this fat loss? I am extremely hungry before i go to bed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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madgame

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I was read an article called "the 10 biggest myths in bodybuilding" or something written by a really succesful bodybuilder. All those things he called myths were things that are completely wrong (like spot reduction...muscle mass "turns" into fat when you stop working out, etc.). Among those myths was that you shouldnt eat before you go to bed cause itll make you fat (and the writer said that it was scientifically proven that this isnt true). However I heared Ralf Moeller, the german bodybuilder who played in films like gladiator (? Im not quite sure if he was in that movie but I think so lol), say that he wasnt on a really strict diet or anything ,but that he didnt eat before he went to bed, because he didnt wanna gain fat. Actually I think the first thing is probably true though, cant really tell for sure. However everytime I dieted I did eat a meal before going to bed (not a big one though..you dont eat "big meals" when youre on a fat loss diet anyways) and everything worked out the way I wanted it to. So I suggest you eat before u go to bed, but dont eat a really big meal or anything if you're unscecure about it...dont think it matters much tho.
 

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I eat a very small meal before I go to bed. When I bulk it's a cup and a half of skim milk, some green veggies, and flax oil (or peanuts). Now that I'm cutting, I dropped the milk. It hasn't hurt me yet.
 

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I ate before I went to bed last night and I woke up at 2 and threw up. At least I made it outside. probably won't do that again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have a protein + fat meal before you sleep. The fat will slow down the digestion of protein, which is what you want when you sleep for hours.
 

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MatIm,

You sound like me. I was thinking that same thing.
I heard you should eat protein that takes a longer time to digest, like chicken or tuna, (rather than a whey protein drink) cause you want to feed your muscles throughout the night. I forgot that word that describes this, something like "catabolic", which means your body cannabalizes your muscle mass when it doesn't have anything else to burn while you sleep.

However, that doesn't mean pig out before you go to bed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You should not eat before you go to sleep because your liver has to focus on bile production, aiding in digestion instead of filtering the toxins out of your blood, which is what is meant to happen as you sleep.

If you absolutely MUST eat something, have some fresh, non citrus fruit, like apple or banana.

But ideally you should eat at least 2-3 hours before you crash out.
 
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