"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Easy way to step your game up; get a sense of style you hobo

Vice

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Check out the sig, it contains a link to an invaluable men's fashion blog that'll get the girls approaching you with or without any game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Atom Smasher

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I'm convinced that the biggest reason guys say things like, "No matter how hard I try, I can't even say hi" when approaching is that they have not taken care of their appearance. All you have to do to be physically attractive is to do the best you can with what you have by grooming yourself and showing a little sense of style. Once you get that handled, you get a huge boost in confidence and it brings you to a whole new plane of existence. I'm a rookie at the DJ lifestyle, but I have noticed that one of the basic things a man MUST do is to get his personal appearance taken care of.

You can have physical imperfections all over the place... It really doesn't matter. Women generally look for men who demonstrate that they have maximized their appearance and show a little style, not for perfect physical features.

You're right on-point, Vice.
 

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I prefer chilled out clothes which make me feel comfortable, with added sexual accessories. That's it. I like looking classy, and not too punkrock-ish. But different styles for different people. Good forum btw - kinowear.
 
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