"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Easy way to step your game up; get a sense of style you hobo

Vice

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Check out the sig, it contains a link to an invaluable men's fashion blog that'll get the girls approaching you with or without any game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Atom Smasher

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I'm convinced that the biggest reason guys say things like, "No matter how hard I try, I can't even say hi" when approaching is that they have not taken care of their appearance. All you have to do to be physically attractive is to do the best you can with what you have by grooming yourself and showing a little sense of style. Once you get that handled, you get a huge boost in confidence and it brings you to a whole new plane of existence. I'm a rookie at the DJ lifestyle, but I have noticed that one of the basic things a man MUST do is to get his personal appearance taken care of.

You can have physical imperfections all over the place... It really doesn't matter. Women generally look for men who demonstrate that they have maximized their appearance and show a little style, not for perfect physical features.

You're right on-point, Vice.
 

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I prefer chilled out clothes which make me feel comfortable, with added sexual accessories. That's it. I like looking classy, and not too punkrock-ish. But different styles for different people. Good forum btw - kinowear.
 
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