"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Easy way to meet chicks while getting paid extra $$$ to do it.

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Get a part time job in a high end Mall for a major fashion department store and work selling women’s shoes. Chicks love shoes and they come to you.


You not only meet chicks whenever you work, customer’s other employees etc. but you get paid to do it.


If you have “approach anxiety” the setting will put you at ease as they’re customers and co-workers. You’re forced to interact with all kinds of chicks. Helping them out. Getting to know them. Giving them your business card and getting returning, repeat customers that will specifically request and or look for you.


You get discounts on high end clothes, shoes etc. Get coupons to update your wardrobe. Are dressed your best so chicks check you out.


You aren’t wasting money in a club, you meet chicks who may wind up liking you that aren’t drunk. Some chicks will hand you their numbers without you asking especially once you get to know them. Some moms may introduce you to their daughters.


You network and build a social circle with chicks that work there or even shop there. You meet other dudes to hang out with and go out with.


Just a tip. You’d be surprised you’ll meet more chicks doing that then doing random approaches without a reason other than to look like a PUA weirdo.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I did that in 2007. Worked weekends at the local high end mall selling womens' shoes, strictly to meet and fvuck women.

I've hated every job that I've ever had, but selling shoes was one of the worst. Dillard's treats its employees like slaves. Very physically demanding job. I quit after 2 weeks.

Didn't help that I showed up high on weed...
Oh hell yes. stood and walked around like a lunatic. tins of hot chicks working there and dudes hooking up with them or customers.

you really get to see first hand most women don't know what the fvck they want when doing a job like that.

big sales the place was a nut house.

lots of chicks to meet and you wind up expanding your social circle a great deal even more.

eventually got too busy at my regular job and left along with many others. fun times though. still talk to a lot of the people I knew from there, go out etc.
 
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I've hated every job that I've ever had, but selling shoes was one of the worst. Dillard's treats its employees like slaves. Very physically demanding job. I quit after 2 weeks.
Can you give me a few examples?

I love reading about bad jobs, makes me feel a little less crazy for job hopping a sh*t ton recently while I try to find something that sticks.
 

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Can you give me a few examples?

I love reading about bad jobs, makes me feel a little less crazy for job hopping a sh*t ton recently while I try to find something that sticks.
I don't have any jobs I hated but selling chicks shoes...forget it. they'd drive you crazy. buy, return, try on 12 pairs ask other customers their opinion, yours etc.

At times it didn't even matter if the chick was hot. I'd be thinking: "Ok. Enough of you." and go out the back to the store across the street with another company worker leaving the chick there.

You'd hear employees many times like this bytch is crazy etc. lol.

Some chicks were really cool though. Used to get tons of nice clothes on discount, clearance etc and have a shytload of Cologne samples. Almost every kind. I'd bug them all the time for more.

job sucked at times but many times it was great. You really get overloaded with all kinds, races, ages of chicks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Men selling women's shoes look very low value. Did you forget about Al Bundy?
Not when you have a good full time job and do sales part time in a high end department store it doesn't.

it was getting extra pay to play.
 

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I hate retail.

Id rather work behind a bar ir checking cards
 

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Do any of the women end up ****ing a shoe salesman?
Yes a lot did. there was a wide age range working there and shopping there. most all of the dudes I worked with were either swimmers build or in the gym, did wrestling, football or something, every dude was in shape. some damn good looking too. most of us got with customers or concerns workers. it was a part time job or a job till college was done. tons of hot chicks worked there or shopped there. customers were frequent and a lot returned every two weeks or less.

they ask for you and or this one knows that one and everyone's social circle grows. shyt was insane.

still talk to a lot of people that worked there. now the majority are done with college and in regular jobs
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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