Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Easy way to get more attraction

everywomanshero

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You'll get more attraction if you legitimately have a cool life. There is so much cool sh1t in the world man, I'm just so fvcking hopped up on all the sh1t to do, god damn man, we are so lucky to live in this time... anyway here goes:

1. Just say no to isolation. O dear god, that's right leave the house, cancel your cable, use the internet infrequently from school or a library. Time to take night classes, get a job, join toastmasters, volunteer doing something you like, etc. This is probably the most important thing to do.

2. Set some kind of goal for something you personally enjoy. Maybe you want to buy a round the world plane ticket, maybe you want to swim with sharks, maybe you want to learn how to paint from one of the masters, I really don't give a rat's a$$ what it is. Go do it.

3. Continue approaching, but if you've done all this you're approach doesn't have to be very good to work. Within just a few approaches one (and a good one) should sink.

When you're a friendly guy who is genuinely happy with his life and passionately pursuing his dreams, women come in flocks. I have been asked out indirectly by two women in the past week.(one asked to come to something I told her I was doing a couple weeks ago, the other invited me to go with her to a haloween party). I had to decline because I already got the best girl in my city.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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right...

so basically:

1. be in a place where you can meet women
2. don't be a pathetic person
3. keep trying.

this indeed is the basis for all dj theory... it seems to me that the difference between guys who have women in their lives and those that don't is that those who don't don't even try.

don't mock... there's lots of reasons why they got to that psychological state.

but part of the solution is to somehow or other get over it and keep trying.

delta
 
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