"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Easy way for shy guys to get girls.

S0LID

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Print out loads of business cards with your mobile number.

When your in a club or wherever, and your talking to a girl say nice talking to you, if you want to chat again heres my card. I guarantee that if you hand a load of these out a few will txt you :)

At least until you have the confidence to ask straight up for their number.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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S0LID

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yes they do, but their mindset is to meeting girls. They dont realise it. (in exeption to mega shy guys)
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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thats a good idea, especialy if they are real buinsses cards for a company you work in, because this shows that you are succesful and thats a good thing.
 

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My college lecturer actualy told me thats what he does. He's such a pimp.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah, i was thinking of this idea myself. have you guys seen the movie Mean Girls? with lindsey lohan?

i want to get a card like that punjabi kid that said "Badass" on it, with your name, number, e-mail, etc.

that's C+F!
 

Lost In Translation

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my friend does this

he has some success

and you only get interested girls calling too

he gives them out to heaps of chicks lol


his cards read



CHRIS

HEY SEXY

CALL ME

0401222333




thats all it reads and he pulls chicks with it

abit to much like spamming for me but if you haven't got the confidence to break the ice it will work as a quick way to get a few chicks in your team




Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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