Easy little question from a Major AFC

[DiskJockey]

Say you kind of know a girl at the gym or you greet a hot chick at the checkout and say "hi gorgeous" casually with a bit of a smile..... What goes throught the chicks head then. Dose she think.
A: Nothing
B: Hmm this guy wants me
C: He's being friendly
D: What a ****en wuss
E: Depends on the chick

 

[BuildingSomethingBig]

This is not an easy question at all, is it? Posting something like this doesn't demonstrate that you're an AFC, it just demonstrates a lack of general intelligence, to be honest.

Something like this is completely contextual. There's so many factors to consider, that it's not going to be possible to give an anwer to this question. The culture in which you live, the woman's upbringing, how attractive you are, how used to she is to being hit on by guys, your tone of voice, your body language, the expression on your face, etc. You see what I'm getting at? You're never going to know exactly what goes on inside a girl's mind, but how about you actually get out there and start making these approaches. At least then, you'll be able to test their reaction.

If you're an AFC as you say, the best advice I can give you is to not attempt to micro-manage your game. By that I mean, stop trying to analyse every single sentence, gesture, etc. that you make. For most approaches, the first thing you say doesn't even really matter. Most PUAs claim to not even remember what they open with most of the time. Paint your picture, but don't scrutinize every brush stroke.

 

[DiskJockey]

Hmm yeah, ya meen just say it & if things go well roll with it, if not who cares, (or shoot myself

 

[tobby]

E definintely! There aren't that many contextual factors to consider. It's just really depends on the chick. If she was interested she'll roll with your attempt to pick her up. She could just think you're friendly and continue. Sometimes the girl a B*tch and will embarrass the hell out of you.

Women don't make any sense. It's still a numbers game. If you don't believe me look at the numbers of field report threads. Just go out there and try your luck. If you get lucky good, if not move on to other chicks. (That's probably the hard part for us all. Even I hate being embarrassed sometimes.)

 

[azanon]

Say you kind of know a girl at the gym or you greet a hot chick at the checkout and say "hi gorgeous" casually with a bit of a smile..... What goes throught the chicks head then. Dose she think.
A: Nothing
B: Hmm this guy wants me
C: He's being friendly
D: What a ****en wuss
E: Depends on the chick

Most likely F: get away from me geek.

I'm sorry, but that's a lame opener that will most likely turn on their geek/stalker radar. Much better to use a standard, "Hi, my name is x with a friendly, but confident smile".

(edit) if its the former situation (meaning, you kinda know her), then maybe you can get away with it. But if you dont know her at all, please say something else.

 

[DiskJockey]

ok Thanks

 

[rrrrr]

i haven't got a compliment like that for a while, but when i did, all it would do is give me a self esteem boost. would i say "get away from me geeky girl?" NO! If you tell a girl that all you are going to do is build her up, not build yourself up in her eyes, which is what you want to do.

It's not going to make you soundlike a geek/stalker, get real. But it's not going to make YOU look good.

i worked in a department with about 10 young guys my age. we had a bunch of interns come in, with about 5 hot girls and one large one. we were at the bar with some of the interns, and the one large one said to me "all the interns agreed you're the hottest guy in your group." I didn't acknowledge it, it didn't do anything for me. Because I didn't believe it due to the low ratings on hotornot.com I continued to receive when i put my pics on there. It was a mistake putting my pics on that dumb site. But thinking back on it I should feel pretty good about it knowing there were some good looking girls talking about me to each other. So screw hotornot.com.

You're going to make most women feel good about themselves making that comment. If you're good looking yourself, it will make her feel even better.

 

[banGbro]

Hi. It doesnt matter what she thinks.

















Read, learn, and experiment with different theories. Those can explain what she thinks, but fact is no one can ever know. The only think that can be explained is how you interpret things. Let me tell you again, it doesnt matter what she thinks, it is none of your cencern.