"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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easy grocery store pickup

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So guys, I want some input on how to close this scenario. I think I did ok but I love critique...

I was at the grocery store today and made immediate eye contact with one of the employees as she was walking into the store at the same time as me. She smiled BIG. Later as I was shopping walked by me and smiled again as she was showing a customer where to find something (I couldnt chat her up there). As I was checking out she was at a register, I obviously took that line so I could chat her up a little. As she was checking me out her manager was talking with her (i was getting blocked left and right!) I was going to give up then she asked me if I wanted to donate $ for a local charity. I said yes and she gave me a piece of paper to put my name on so they hang it up... I put my #. We shall see the results.

I have also used this same instance where the charity was an animal hospital and you are supposed to sign in honor of your pet. I always put my roommate's name and then find some clever way to tell the checkout clerk what i'm doing. they always love it, its a good way to show some good humor.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I hope you didn't write your number so it's displayed somewhere, that would be odd.
 

Prodigy746

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Effington said:
I hope you didn't write your number so it's displayed somewhere, that would be odd.
ROFL same thing i was thinking ....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always give to the Jerry Lewis MD charity and usually when asked if I'd like to give during the year at places like CVS or Ingles the cashier will hand me a pen and a piece of paper and it's only to put your name not a phone number.

If she see's your phone number where your supposed to put your name and it doesn't click to her to why you didn't put your name she will have to put it up on the store windows because of the dollar you gave thats what they ask for here for that charity. Don't be surprised if you get phone calls but not from her... not really sure how this will turn out but don't get your hopes up or beat yourself up we all have been there... that is, finding creative ways to beat around the bush when we should be man enough to just convo her into giving her number.

Also Espi gave some good advice.

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