"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Easy" Girls = Emotionally messed up?

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ok, need some real good advice for this one. When i say "Easy" please know that i am NOT talking about girls who will just sleep with you or give you some at the drop of a hat. This time i am speaking of the girls who seem to easily fall right into your arms, girls who don't make you play the game that hard, the girls who like you at first more than you like them.

There have been only TWO girls in my entire life that i have actually LIKED, as in cared for them, and loved being around them. In both cases, it was the i was certainly not playing 'the game' to the full extent. In the end, it was found out by me in terrible ways, one of which was just recently, that they were emotionally f'd up. The one just 2 months ago really hurt me terribly. Its a story too long to get into here, but in a nutshell lets just say it was all perfect, i thought she was everything i waited 22 years for, but in the end she turned out to be something i never ever would have guessed, a wack job.

the real question in this thread is that, is it an actual proven fact that girls like this, who you dont have to 'work too hard for' to get, can most likely be mentally f-cked up? With this one recently i kind of sensed something in the very beginning, how it was almost too good to be true, how she was being so unbeleivably nice to me, and it seemed like she wanted to get over with me more than i did with her, which was something i rarely experienced with GOOD LOOKING girls, which she was. Thoughts........ everyone please!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everyone's different period.
 

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SmartOne said:
ok, need some real good advice for this one. When i say "Easy" please know that i am NOT talking about girls who will just sleep with you or give you some at the drop of a hat. This time i am speaking of the girls who seem to easily fall right into your arms, girls who don't make you play the game that hard, the girls who like you at first more than you like them.

There have been only TWO girls in my entire life that i have actually LIKED, as in cared for them, and loved being around them. In both cases, it was the i was certainly not playing 'the game' to the full extent. In the end, it was found out by me in terrible ways, one of which was just recently, that they were emotionally f'd up. The one just 2 months ago really hurt me terribly. Its a story too long to get into here, but in a nutshell lets just say it was all perfect, i thought she was everything i waited 22 years for, but in the end she turned out to be something i never ever would have guessed, a wack job.

the real question in this thread is that, is it an actual proven fact that girls like this, who you dont have to 'work too hard for' to get, can most likely be mentally f-cked up? With this one recently i kind of sensed something in the very beginning, how it was almost too good to be true, how she was being so unbeleivably nice to me, and it seemed like she wanted to get over with me more than i did with her, which was something i rarely experienced with GOOD LOOKING girls, which she was. Thoughts........ everyone please!
That's not necessarily true. There are also lots of chicks that aren't manipulative, don't make you play the game that hard, and are "easy" just because they are real laid back and cool, like your guy friends. I think David D calls them "guy chicks".
 
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