"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Easter here, 3 night's of clubbing!!

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Ok so i have 4 day's off for easter like most of you i bet?,anyhow i wanted to put up a thread and update it everynight i got out over the next 3 night's due to some exsperiments i'm conducting.

mainly trying to do thing's i'm not very confortable doing,like dancing before anyone else and not just standing there in the club like an ass.

I shall update this thread every night from now and will change my style each night to see which style i have the most success with in a club atmosphere.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
one of those bar fly guys.
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ahahah

Anyhow i went last night but there were the most people i've seen at "Destiny" for along time...i couldn't move so i just bailed out early.
 
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If you left early, you were not enjoying yourself.

If you go to a club always have a goal in mind. There can possibly be two:

1, Approach an X number of girls
2, Have Fun

If you don't enjoy clubs that much maybe you should look for other locations to meet girls. Believe me, there are plenty of them!

Otherwise having fun is the solution. Option 1 is good for newbies trying to "de-shy" themselves, but for those looking for something serious, letting go of worrying and having fun is the key.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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