"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Easter here, 3 night's of clubbing!!

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Ok so i have 4 day's off for easter like most of you i bet?,anyhow i wanted to put up a thread and update it everynight i got out over the next 3 night's due to some exsperiments i'm conducting.

mainly trying to do thing's i'm not very confortable doing,like dancing before anyone else and not just standing there in the club like an ass.

I shall update this thread every night from now and will change my style each night to see which style i have the most success with in a club atmosphere.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
one of those bar fly guys.
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ahahah

Anyhow i went last night but there were the most people i've seen at "Destiny" for along time...i couldn't move so i just bailed out early.
 
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If you left early, you were not enjoying yourself.

If you go to a club always have a goal in mind. There can possibly be two:

1, Approach an X number of girls
2, Have Fun

If you don't enjoy clubs that much maybe you should look for other locations to meet girls. Believe me, there are plenty of them!

Otherwise having fun is the solution. Option 1 is good for newbies trying to "de-shy" themselves, but for those looking for something serious, letting go of worrying and having fun is the key.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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