Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Easily Overcome Her Tests To Maximize Attraction

taiyuu_otoko

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Sh*t tests are inevitable. You know it, she knows it. We all know it.

But they aren't what most guys think they are.

Lots of guys, especially on all the forums, have a lot of suspicion regarding women and their behavior.

In truth, women are just like us. Trying to get as much good stuff in life with as little effort as possible.

Sex and relationships is no different.

So, what is a sh*t test?

It's basically her way to measuring the strength of your character.

Kind of like when a guy checks out a girl, and starts to wonder if her boobs are real. We usually wouldn't be interested unless she caught our attention in the first place, right?

Same with girls.

They don't test us because they're trying to hurt us or put us down in front of our friends or cut us down to size or anything.

They're just trying to see if our personality, game, and "frame" is real.

If we pass her tests, she knows we're for real, and she can allow herself to become attracted to us.

It's important to note that all of this happens in her subconscious. She isn't sitting there in a conversation and then suddenly decides to throw out a test. They just come naturally. And when we pass, her attraction will increase naturally.

Think of it this way. You're talking to a girl at a bar, she's cute, and she's got some nice boobs. You ask, "are those real?" Now, if she said, "no, they're fake. I got implants so I could get lots of free stuff from guys." We'd run away in a hurry.

But what if she smiled, took a deep breath, and said, "Yea! Do you like them?" That would likely increase our attraction.

(NOTE: This is an example. DO NOT ask a girl if her boobs are real!)

Similarly, she's hoping our frame is real, and not just a fake construct to help us get as much poon as we possibly can.

So, how do we pass her tests?

Simple.

Don't get rattled. If we get rattled, we fail. If we don't get rattled, we pass. Easy peasy.

If you think something is a test, it likely is. And if it is a test, NEVER EVER take it personally. She's hoping you won't. She's hoping you'll smile and say, "that's cute" and keep on talking about what you were talking about.

Do this, and you'll be MUCH more successful.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NileWaters

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Nice tip but practically how you do this when these sh*t tests come at you randomly? Example: Girl says "I'm hanging out with Johhhn later;) " in a 'you should be jealous' tone.

How do you not be rattled in a split second?
 

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NileWaters said:
Nice tip but practically how you do this when these sh*t tests come at you randomly? Example: Girl says "I'm hanging out with Johhhn later;) " in a 'you should be jealous' tone.

How do you not be rattled in a split second?
Simple: by honestly not caring. Sh*t tests will ALWAYS come "randomly", and half the time you won't realize its a test. Sh*t tests should never faze you, so in response to your example, you should just say something like "have fun", like you don't even care.
 
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