Easiest way to pull a girl's number

[gravityeyelids]

Before i say this, let me start out saying that i REALIZE gettting the number usually means nothing and girls will give you it for no other reason than to get rid of you. This method assumes that you've already established some attraction and comfort between the two of you first. However, i believe this is a great way to get the number.

Next time you're talking to a babe....simply pull out your phone as if you were checking a text message. Open it up to your contacts. Go to Add New Contact (or the equivalent on your phone). Then hand it to her and SAY NOTHING.

When i say nonchalant, i mean it. As if you don't even realize what you are doing. Keep talking to her about movies or television or craft beer or whatever the hell you're entertaining her with WHILE you pull it out and hand it to her. Don't be awkward and stare at her afterwards. Although you can just stay silent and give her a coy smile. Play around with it.

This is great for a number of reasons:
1) the nonchalant way that you do this makes it known that it's NO BIG DEAL. Because it's not. For either of you. and shouldn't be. She knows what is up.

2) The confidence that this suggests will cause her attraction to go up. Girls are so used to guys who ASK and act as if it's a blessing for you to get her number and make it so awkward. Poor girls. What a relief to have a guy that doesn't ask for it like a wimp. You're already assuming she not only is going to give it to you, but that she WANTS to give you her number and WANTS you to call her.

3)This is great when you're at a party and you can't remember her name. Hahah there are few things that will blow you out and insult a girl quicker than forgetting her name. However, we've ALL been there, especially when drinking is involved. If you hand her the phone with the "Name" space highlighted, she will put it in....and woila! Your dumb nuts now remembers her name and has her number.

Again, i realize numbers don't mean ****. But still. I have NEVER had a girl not give me her number using this method.

 

[Skyline]

Next time you're talking to a babe....simply pull out your phone as if you were checking a text message. Open it up to your contacts. Go to Add New Contact (or the equivalent on your phone). Then hand it to her and SAY NOTHING.

I've done this several times actually. I've gotten mostly negative responses trying to set something up or whatever but I felt pretty ballsy when I pulled something like this and my friends are like wtf?

To each his own!

 

[gravityeyelids]

I've done this several times actually. I've gotten mostly negative responses trying to set something up or whatever but I felt pretty ballsy when I pulled something like this and my friends are like wtf? To each his own!

It's ballsy, but at the same time i find it so much easier. Maybe it's cause it always works for me so im very confident when i do it.

If nothing else, collecting numbers is good because it makes getting the number not a big deal to get nervous about and it's fun sometimes to watch your blue pill friends go: "whoa man you're a legend, how'd you get 5 numbers in one night?!" when in reality you didnt get any pootang

 

[Skyline]

If nothing else, collecting numbers is good because it makes getting the number not a big deal to get nervous about and it's fun sometimes to watch your blue pill friends go: "whoa man you're a legend, how'd you get 5 numbers in one night?!" when in reality you didnt get any pootang

:crackup:

I remember deleting 4 or 5 numbers from doing this some time earlier this month. I feel it's best to develop some rapport beforehand though, since it's basically a "Are you interested in me RIGHT NOW or not?" technique.

 

[gravityeyelids]

:crackup:

I remember deleting 4 or 5 numbers from doing this some time earlier this month. I feel it's best to develop some rapport beforehand though, since it's basically a "Are you interested in me RIGHT NOW or not?" technique.

Oh completely. Most guys make the phone # a big deal. And i'm not even talking about the the fact that they see it as an accomplishment. Even if guys are completely unaffected by getting the number, they still fail to build some sort of rapport before and after. They "succeed" in getting the number and think "ok cool. got it." and then proceed to leave right after. Girls see this as "okayyy...so he just wanted my number" as opposed to "oh, he seems like an interesting guy, i feel like we could have fun together so i hope he calls me up".

Not only this, but if you aren't memorable and interesting than you're "just some guy I met when I was drunk". Even if you got the makeout (part of why i don't think going for the makeout unless you're banging that night), you're just "some guy I made out with at a party" and she feels cheap because of it

 

[Wolfgang D]

Next time you're talking to a babe....simply pull out your phone as if you were checking a text message. Open it up to your contacts. Go to Add New Contact (or the equivalent on your phone). Then hand it to her and SAY NOTHING.

Interesting method, will have to try that sometime.

My usual method is to find a reason to send her some information, like the link to a website or something. Then we can both pretend that it's not about boy meeting girl. And I get her email and her number, or only her email. To some, that might seem nerdy. But a girl is more comfortable handing out her email than her cellphone number, since she won't have to fear having a guy call her time and again.

I add some casual comment after the info I send her, and she replies to that. I send some fun-sounding reply back, she does the same. Now a week has past, and I have shown her that I don't ask her out immediately the first weekend that comes up. When the second weekend is approaching however, I send her a quick message saying that I will be at X close to where she works or studies or lives on such-and-such day, and does she have time for a cup of coffee later that day?

This eases in the approach from start to finish. We can both pretend that I am not coming on to her, which saves face for both parties. Girls don't like rejecting a guy's obvious approach so that he loses face. They prefer to talk to you and see you in a way where you pretend that it is just about being friendly, but you both know it isn't.

You don't drag it out, of course. The next step is to make her come over to your place, or to get yourself invited to hers. Some movie or mini series or such that you should watch together. I have two classic mini series on DVD that I use for this purpose.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Interesting method, will have to try that sometime.

My usual method is to find a reason to send her some information, like the link to a website or something. Then we can both pretend that it's not about boy meeting girl. And I get her email and her number, or only her email. To some, that might seem nerdy. But a girl is more comfortable handing out her email than her cellphone number, since she won't have to fear having a guy call her time and again.

I add some casual comment after the info I send her, and she replies to that. I send some fun-sounding reply back, she does the same. Now a week has past, and I have shown her that I don't ask her out immediately the first weekend that comes up. When the second weekend is approaching however, I send her a quick message saying that I will be at X close to where she works or studies or lives on such-and-such day, and does she have time for a cup of coffee later that day?

This eases in the approach from start to finish. We can both pretend that I am not coming on to her, which saves face for both parties. Girls don't like rejecting a guy's obvious approach so that he loses face. They prefer to talk to you and see you in a way where you pretend that it is just about being friendly, but you both know it isn't.

You don't drag it out, of course. The next step is to make her come over to your place, or to get yourself invited to hers. Some movie or mini series or such that you should watch together. I have two classic mini series on DVD that I use for this purpose.

assuming you're not horribly unattractive, i think you need to be more direct. Dont get me wrong, i'm a fan of being indirect, but the phone number is one of those things that a girl expects to give out and these days the phone # is so watered down that they dont care about giving the number out....Maybe it's just because im in college...but if you don't strike quickly then the iron cools off and she will feel no attraction to you. two weeks is far too long. To me it seems like a fast route to the friendzone. Just my thoughts from my limited experience