"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is the ratio between replies:views so low. This is a discussion forum. We want to hear what you have to say. This isn't a spectator sport. We all want to "discuss" what's going on. I know some of you guys just look at the posts and you don't even have a screen name. It takes 2 seconds to make one. Just start replying people. Only then will we all become better DJ's because we'll actually discuss our ideas. So let's get that ratio higher fellas.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Then we'd have a bunch of under-qualified people answering the questions...if you walked into a math class and the teacher said "Hey! You! Cm'ere, do this problem on the board!" and gave you some question that you had no idea how to answer, would it hurt or help the class for you to answer it anyways on the board and say it were right?


The point of the story is those who post need to know what they're talking about, or people will get bad information...everyone posting all the time will lead to bad information.
 
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Then we'd have a bunch of under-qualified people answering the questions...if you walked into a math class and the teacher said "Hey! You! Cm'ere, do this problem on the board!" and gave you some question that you had no idea how to answer, would it hurt or help the class for you to answer it anyways on the board and say it were right?

The point of the story is those who post need to know what they're talking about, or people will get bad information...everyone posting all the time will lead to bad information.
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Agreed. There aren't many people on this site who really know what they're doing.
 
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Very true. There are also a ton of people, as previously mentioned, who look but don't post.

I don't have any complaints, though. I enjoy contributing back to the people - and that's why you can contribute back to me in the form of lots of cash.:D
 
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