"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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easier than i expected

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so ive been talking to this girl in class and shes partnered with me for group work. ive been helping her with understand some of the stuff but could never get the balls to ask for her number *im an afc failure?*. so today she messages me online PLEASE CALL ME I NEED HELP WITH THIS STUFF! *adds cellphone number*....

hmm.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there was a really hot girl that kept asking for me to call her (i never did).
and she was talking about sexual stuff over e-mail with me.
and when i finally had her over (our parents are friends), she tuned out to be a lesbian..... or bi, but more into girls than guys, and i'm like -_-
 
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haha that sucks. why was she sending you the sexual stuff if she was lesbian.
 
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that's wut i'm confused about lol
 
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Crazy Asian said:
that's wut i'm confused about lol
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Threesome.

IMO any girl that talks sexually as you say, wants to hear it back and ten times worse.

1 of 2 things happen.

You escalate hardcore and call her out on her BS. (a good thing)

Or she's into it, and you've got wild kinky "How the hell did my pants end up under the bed, but on top of the boxspring?" sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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