"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man. You guys know alot about women's secret weapons!since you have been experimenting that much, have you tried em also?
 

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Thomson said:
Man. You guys know alot about women's secret weapons!since you have been experimenting that much, have you tried em also?
Well yea!

Anyone around here seen my heels? Can't seem to find 'em. :cheer:
 

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Lol! I gotz a hoop in my left ear. So I personally think its ok as long as its one only in the left ear and not in both ears. Its gay to have it in both but not the left one only. My work and tenants dont care either and I am a commercial building manager.

*shrugs*
 

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My dad used to have one if his left ear and i did until i lose my earring. I haven't found another earring of my liking since the old custom designed one i had. I like to wear things that are flashy but not obnoxious. Alot of what is considered fashionable, makes men feel feminine/gay which is hard for guys to understand as being fashionable makes them look better. So if you want to look better, you'll need to dress more feminine or if you want to feel more masculine, you can dress worse.

I'm okay with whatever you can pull off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Been wearing them for years!
 
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