"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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earned date with a hottie.. I had to flip, turn, over x2 fight tooth and nail for it.

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Okay so here's the situation:

There is a girl named Britt I'm currently talking to. We figured we would have a date soon like go out to eat, find something fun to do, ect. (I realize that if we do we will have sex, that is how I operate, I'm not worried about that part, so thank you in advance.)

I dated her best friend a few months back even had sex on the same bed as her a couple times..ect.. She knows me well, yet we have always kept our relationship flirtatious on a very subtle level if that is understood.. we actually had somewhat of an affair then too because we would end up spending 30+ minutes on the phone together once in a while.

Anyway she's attractive. If you would rate me a solid 9 then in a girls perspective she is a 9 1/2. I hadn't made it a true point or priority to get a date with her, but yesterday I finally asked with every intention and detail laid out.. (Mind you I've hooked up with around 40 girls already and laid well in double digits, I know not to lie, pressure, and to tell the whole truth so help me God :up: ) She offered a day but the thing is is that it isn't easy for me knowing she's more attractive than I am and she knows that too, I know she's not 100% about being with me is the point. I have just been very nice, told her what I want, and have been persistant as all hell.

Any advice on how to hook her completely? I believe there is something more that needs to be offered I might have that she needs. That's my perspective however.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dawg why in every thread you always mention you boned 40 chicks?
Ok we get it you a Playa, blah blah, it's not about quantity fam but quality. Stop feeling like you need to big yourself up

Now in terms of your topic, you are putting her on pedestal, sub-consciously, why? cause she is hot in the words of Jay'z "Don't do that" When you go on that date, bust her balls, don't be to hard, make her laugh, keep your vibe and body language relax, and don't act thristly. Once shorty sees your swag and that you don't give a Fcuk you will Smash, just keep the playfull banter going


Peep my homeboy fam

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFPUd0AVahs
^^feel me, that's how you do it, bust her ass, make her laugh, add some naughtyness to it knamean? personally me, I woulda sexually escalated a bit more but that's me

I'm Nasty like that

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I think you're 100% correct. Thread may as well be closed. Thank you Solo.

P.S. I'm striving for the Pimpin' my book "Pimpology by Pimpin' Ken" hasn't come in. I know I sound like a broken record with the 40, mind you, they're not all sexed, some include just head or masterbating each other things of that nature.. The play has always come easy... many are well in double digits for sexing however, it hasn't been more than 2 years since I realized I'm easily capable of sexing any girl I kiss. But my statistics are part of my personality, I show what I got, it's what and who I am. What I sell, what I advertise, I'm my own man You know? Chuch.
 

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What's "Chuch"...?

Just remember good looks don't earn a girl special priveleges, it's how she treats you. Base your reactions on her actions, and she'll get the picture.
 

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Did you peep the link?

and another one....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gYqTZ25hbY
^^never mind the accent, dude is spitting fire

Another thing is, what the book by Pimpin Ken may help,y ou already know the game better then most, dude you 20 and boned 40 chicks. You ain't a rookie, right now you gotta expand your game to keeping some of these chicks around "cop n blow" (hit n run) is cool, to get a nut here and there, but to many diseases out there, I myself rather smash the same chick a gazillion times then be on the hunt over and over. It's to much time and energy wasted

Find yourself 2 or 3 if you can and keep them around, knamean, what you trying to reach a 100? it's a lot of work playa, IMO not worth it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hansol said:
What's "Chuch"...?

Just remember good looks don't earn a girl special priveleges, it's how she treats you. Base your reactions on her actions, and she'll get the picture.

Well what good looks do earn her in all honesty is more of a turn on and hotter sex. Thank you for your advice. I really have to go with what Solo said however, I'm bustin her. I always forget what it is I'm doing or have in the heat of the moment right before sex which is exactly what Solo said, I cannot just be captivated by her looks the entire time. I've gotta move in for the panties... yes I know now it's figured out :up:

Chuch- A pimp phrase usually used at the end of statement meaning amen, so be it, truth.. God is with me. You know?
 
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Solomon said:
Did you peep the link?

and another one....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gYqTZ25hbY
^^never mind the accent, dude is spitting fire

Another thing is, what the book by Pimpin Ken may help,y ou already know the game better then most, dude you 20 and boned 40 chicks. You ain't a rookie, right now you gotta expand your game to keeping some of these chicks around "cop n blow" (hit n run) is cool, to get a nut here and there, but to many diseases out there, I myself rather smash the same chick a gazillion times then be on the hunt over and over. It's to much time and energy wasted

Find yourself 2 or 3 if you can and keep them around, knamean, what you trying to reach a 100? it's a lot of work playa, IMO not worth it
Chuch brotha I feel that... Yeaaaaaa haha. I'm at this point and how my game works is destructive... **** and forget 'em. I need to keep a few around like that. I'm not going to lie to you you know? My Grandfathers knowledge raising me took me this far. I'm not going to lie and say I know how exactly to trick a ***** or multiple for straight consistent sex, albeit don't think I've never done it before and gotten so tired of sexing the same ***** without love for so long I copped out. I'm not going to lie... The only way to learn is from an older and wiser Mack you know? Pimpin' Ken is that nigga. I ain't lying about what I don't have you know? I'm striving for that what you mentioned though. Thank you playa. I'm grateful.
 

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Sorry, I'm a white redneck biker, so not really "hip" with what pimps are saying these days.

And I'm not disagreeing with Solo dude. He is right on the money. All I'm saying is good looks don't earn a girl anything. Yeah she might get a second look, where-as the fatty next to her gets a shudder, but other than that, it's "what can you do for me?" (ie give good *******s, be a good mum to my kids (if you're going that route), improve my lifestyle, be eye candy at parties etc).

If a chick is a 10 but is a drag to be around, doesn't like my dog, doesn't like my friends, doesn't like my bike, then why the hell would I want her around? There's a bazillion hot chicks in the world; I'll go find one that isn't a pain in the ass.

When a chick gets such a vibe from you, it tends to pique their interest for some reason.

Amen.
 
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Solomon said:
Did you peep the link?

and another one....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gYqTZ25hbY
^^never mind the accent, dude is spitting fire

Another thing is, what the book by Pimpin Ken may help,y ou already know the game better then most, dude you 20 and boned 40 chicks. You ain't a rookie, right now you gotta expand your game to keeping some of these chicks around "cop n blow" (hit n run) is cool, to get a nut here and there, but to many diseases out there, I myself rather smash the same chick a gazillion times then be on the hunt over and over. It's to much time and energy wasted

Find yourself 2 or 3 if you can and keep them around, knamean, what you trying to reach a 100? it's a lot of work playa, IMO not worth it
I have to disagree with this 2nd link however Solo. That's a no no, downright crazy talk in my opinion.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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